bananaboat11 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Things are going all too smoothly... she just got out of a 1 year 'dating' thing... not a relationship according to her. We're not having sex.. I won't allow it yet. I'm not falling trap to being burned again as a rebound. We've hooked up since the first date... she threw herself on me after I asked if I could kiss her since we were taking things slow... but it's not just conventional dating.. one date here... one date there... we're already acting like a couple... we've made dinner together. cuddled. The only thing/s missing are the title... the sex... I asked her if she sees us going anywhere. She said yes. She then told me all her friends think I'm hot. I'm supposed to call her when she's off work today. I may text her mid afternoon wishing her a good day with a smiley face. I went in to see her at work yesterday (per her request - probably b/c the other girls she works with didn't believe she was "with" me?) then she called me after work. She got me two treats from her place of work I CAN'T say no to... ...but does it seem like we're moving too fast for her? I was FINALLY coming to terms and content with being single. ugh.
CuriousQDe Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I don't see anything that looks problematic here. Did she say you were moving too fast? Or did she ever suddenly withdraw? Also what does it mean when you say, "We've hooked up since the first date?"
Author bananaboat11 Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 I don't see anything that looks problematic here. Did she say you were moving too fast? Or did she ever suddenly withdraw? Also what does it mean when you say, "We've hooked up since the first date?" ....I asked her if I could kiss her at the end of the first date. She had told me earlier in the night about her past 'dating' and just breaking it off recently and that she wanted to take it slow with me, but she liked me and was interested in me. Me thinking... I was burned by a girl in a similar situation (her 4 year relationship) 7 months ago... she's disappeared from my life thank g-d (which made it easier to cope)... and I am just being cautious now. anyhow, well... girl I'm dating... smiled and nodded. Next thing I know She threw me onto her couch... and our lips locked as she wrapped her legs around me..... next thing I knew we were in her bedroom. Heh... First date. yeah.
Author bananaboat11 Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 I do really like her, but I refuse to fall for her yet (not that I'll have any control over that... heh). I don't want to get attached yet.
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