LearnerBug Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Couple Make Sex Tape, Does Not Show Males Face. Female Deletes Sex tape but BY ACCIDENT a copy still exists. Unknown to both of them. Couple enter a social environment of their peers. Female begins to behave extremely promiscuous in this new environment. Male Discovers copy argument breaks out as she believes he kept it on purpose. Two are bitter towards each other Male (her recent promiscuous behavior) Female (he thinks he kept a sex tape) Female Cheats THREE TIMES! Male Sends video tape to Females Family Members. Who Is The One To Blame For The Break Down? Who Is The Worse Party Male or Female? Forgot to mention the male was a known joke all around the Social Environment as the guy with the whore for a Girlfriend. The Girl Claimed only to have stayed in the relationship out of fear of the videotape once she discovered it existed.
CrayonAngel Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Why did you make a sex tape? I'll never understand this...
Rorschach Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Both male and female are idiots and need to grow up before they INFLICT their presence on another person in a later relationship. Girl is a wore, guy is petty. Both people lose the game of life.
monkeywithagun Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 wow,. this situation sucks,. I would say they are both in the wrong ofcourse,. but male sending sex tape to family members is completely out of lines,. why bring the family into private relationship matters.
TaraMaiden Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Couple Make Sex Tape, Does Not Show Males Face. From this, I take it female's face IS visible? Neat...... Female Deletes Sex tape but BY ACCIDENT a copy still exists. Unknown to both of them. That's important, huh? 'By Accident'. Meaning deletion was never intentional or on the cards anyway.... is that it? Couple enter a social environment of their peers. "Ta-dah! here we are folks! Nice to meet you!" Why, were they isolated and on a desert island before this? Female begins to behave extremely promiscuous in this new environment. well, if she's been on a desert island all this time, that's understandable.... Male Discovers copy argument breaks out as she believes he kept it on purpose. This now implies that the 'Accident' wasn't such an accident after all....especially if her face was showing... D'uh - ?!? Two are bitter towards each other Male (her recent promiscuous behavior) Female (he thinks he kept a sex tape) Two are acting like a pair of immature juveniles and should never have made tape in first place. Double-D'uh - ?!? Female Cheats THREE TIMES! What.... all on the same day? With three different guys? With the same guy three times? Is this associated directly with the tape, or the fact that she thinks her male is inadequate? So I guess it's over, huh? Male Sends video tape to Females Family Members. What a dumb jerk. That's just immature and spitefully vindictive, that's not clever. Who Is The One To Blame For The Break Down? I'd say it's even-stevens.... Who Is The Worse Party Male or Female? I'd say ditto..... Forgot to mention the male was a known joke all around the Social Environment as the guy with the whore for a Girlfriend. Really? So she regularly slept with guys for money? Did male get a cut as her pimp? or is this yet another stupid, immature, spiteful and vindictive justification for being an @$$hole? The Girl Claimed only to have stayed in the relationship out of fear of the videotape once she discovered it existed. Seems she was right and her fears were justified then, huh?
Author LearnerBug Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 Feel like more explanation is needed. yes her face was shown not his. the video was recorded and the device was later connected to a computer where all the information was backed up onto the computer and stored. (he later discovered that the computer had backed up the devices along with the tape) the new environment was university she cheated with three different guys and the most of campus knew what she was like other than him. He used to get laughed at places like library computer room and did not understand why certain guys where laughing. He sent the video the day he found out she had lied to him he was obviously mad and hysterical. He was a luaghing stock on campus and had one fight over someone taking the joke to far. he dropped out of college since.
TaraMaiden Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Ok, let's cut the third person. We're talking about you and a girl, right? Explanations are superfluous. She slept around (a lot of guys do too, but it seems ok for guys to do this in college but not girls....?) Whose business is it what she chooses to do? if she cheats, then you do the right thing, and dump her. End of and sorted. Be dignified and admirable. Two wrongs don't make a right. mad and hysterical is no justifiable cause... To be vindictive, spiteful and nasty and intentionally do something as an act of mean revenge is neither dignified, nor admirable. Dropping out of college was your decision, and a decision you made can't be put on her shoulders. if you dropped out, then nobody held a gun to your head and made you do it. I appreciate that this was a hard thing to deal with. but quit being bitter, learn from it, and move on. And treat ladies with a little more respect. if you're going to make personal porn videos, make sure her face isn't visible either.
Author LearnerBug Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 Ok, let's cut the third person. We're talking about you and a girl, right? Explanations are superfluous. She slept around (a lot of guys do too, but it seems ok for guys to do this in college but not girls....?) Whose business is it what she chooses to do? if she cheats, then you do the right thing, and dump her. End of and sorted. Be dignified and admirable. Two wrongs don't make a right. mad and hysterical is no justifiable cause... To be vindictive, spiteful and nasty and intentionally do something as an act of mean revenge is neither dignified, nor admirable. Dropping out of college was your decision, and a decision you made can't be put on her shoulders. if you dropped out, then nobody held a gun to your head and made you do it. I appreciate that this was a hard thing to deal with. but quit being bitter, learn from it, and move on. And treat ladies with a little more respect. if you're going to make personal porn videos, make sure her face isn't visible either. You actually justified her cheating bullocks sorry but i dont know why i asked i am actually quite happy i paris hiltoned her ass sounds cheap but i felt GREAT same embarrasment i got walking around on campus whilst guys pointed laughed and bragged. now she gets embarrased when she looks at her syblings and parents. YOU SOUND LIKE SOME GASSED UP FEMINIST! She slept around (a lot of guys do too, but it seems ok for guys to do this in college but not girls....?) Whose business is it what she chooses to do? I mean wtf ME I CHOOSE I AM HER BOYFRIEND PAYING FOR S***! CAUSE SHE TO BROKE TOO. I PRAY it happens to you so you take that stupid and quite frankly ridiculous remark there are incredible double standards in this world ON BOTH SIDES. doesn't mean any of the actions are right. FROM DIVORCES TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE STUPID STUPID COMMENT.
PrettyinInk Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 You actually justified her cheating bullocks sorry but i dont know why i asked i am actually quite happy i paris hiltoned her ass sounds cheap but i felt GREAT same embarrasment i got walking around on campus whilst guys pointed laughed and bragged. now she gets embarrased when she looks at her syblings and parents. YOU SOUND LIKE SOME GASSED UP FEMINIST! She slept around (a lot of guys do too, but it seems ok for guys to do this in college but not girls....?) Whose business is it what she chooses to do? I mean wtf ME I CHOOSE I AM HER BOYFRIEND PAYING FOR S***! CAUSE SHE TO BROKE TOO. I PRAY it happens to you so you take that stupid and quite frankly ridiculous remark there are incredible double standards in this world ON BOTH SIDES. doesn't mean any of the actions are right. FROM DIVORCES TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE STUPID STUPID COMMENT. i don't understand why you are so upset, you asked who was worse you or the girl. someone says you and you get mad? don't ask a question if you can't handle the response. what were you expecting the guys to come in here and say, "good job man, you really showed that hoe what's up." guess what, all you did was show her that you are just as crappy a person as she. bravo.
Woggle Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 It was a dirty thing to do but on the other she should have never betrayed you like that. Sometimes you have to get even. I have a feeling that a lot of women would be saying you go girl if the genders were reversed so don't feel guilty about it. You two are even now so move on with your life.
TaraMaiden Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 You actually justified her cheating bullocks sorry but i dont know why i asked i am actually quite happy i paris hiltoned her ass sounds cheap but i felt GREAT same embarrasment i got walking around on campus whilst guys pointed laughed and bragged. Wow. You're even less mature than I thought you were. What are you, 9? now she gets embarrased when she looks at her syblings and parents. Don't worry. Her family will soon forgive and forget. It's more likely however, that they actually hold you in far greater contempt for the stupid thing you did by sending them the vid. And don't forget, they got a look at your handsome athletic body too... that must make you soooo proud.... YOU SOUND LIKE SOME GASSED UP FEMINIST! Actually, I'm a 53-year-old mother of two adult children, whom I can completely and utterly trust to never behave the way you have. I don't need to be a feminist to recognise a pair of foolish, immature young kidsn, when I see them..... I mean wtf ME I CHOOSE I AM HER BOYFRIEND PAYING FOR S***! CAUSE SHE TO BROKE TOO. Exactly,. You chose. So now you've dumped her, drop it and get over it. Why are you still carrying this around with you? I PRAY it happens to you so you take that stupid and quite frankly ridiculous remark there are incredible double standards in this world ON BOTH SIDES. doesn't mean any of the actions are right. You have absolutely no idea what I have already been through in my life and it makes what you're going through like a picnic in the park. Just wait until you grow up. This will fade as an idiotic memory when you hit the 'big people' world..... It was a dirty thing to do but on the other she should have never betrayed you like that. Sometimes you have to get even. I have a feeling that a lot of women would be saying you go girl if the genders were reversed so don't feel guilty about it. You two are even now so move on with your life. well, you know I'm not one of the ones who would. What they both did was pretty dense, stupid immature and puerile. on equal levels. but yes, I agree. Move on, and leave this behind. your bitterness (which you are choosing to play into) is what is holding you back. The events are over, done and dusted and finished with. Let it go. I hope neither circumstance comes back and bites either of you on the @$$....
Author LearnerBug Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 "good job man, you really showed that hoe what's up." yes i did thanks a lot man
Author LearnerBug Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 It was a dirty thing to do but on the other she should have never betrayed you like that. Sometimes you have to get even. I have a feeling that a lot of women would be saying you go girl if the genders were reversed so don't feel guilty about it. You two are even now so move on with your life. Exactly what I have done and was planning to do before she came back complaining to people at what I had done and how it has affected her, she is a model and feels it could potentially damage her career if it goes on now I got some people going bravo fair play, then i got stupid people saying im inconsiderate which is why i get a little mad as if fidelity nowadays counts for nothing because4 'other guys do it' what type of ****ing crap is that. How am I supposed to move on when she keeps pestering me and my new girlfriend thinks I'm trying to hook back up with her. My ex thinks its overboard I don't. Now I got this whore who is pestering me don't know what to do? Double Standards Suck never been a fan of them in favour of any race or gender, adn the fact the supposed 53 year old woman justified it with a double standard pissed me off I won't lie. Maybe Shaira Law is the way, maybe next time if it happens I will go O.J Simpson ,
Green Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 (edited) Both people in this scenario suck, but one of those peple is a bigger loser. Unless the guy caught aids or something I say he is a much bigger loser because he should have just walked away from the situation, plus he is just as big a liar as she is for not deleting the recording like he said he did. Just because he meant to delete it and later found out it wasn't deleted doesn't make him less of a liar. My vote the guy is way worse and if I were the girl I would take legal action. By the way why didn't you delete it for good when she found the sex tape? YOU PROBABLY STILL HAVE IT Edited May 13, 2010 by Green
Woggle Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Why can't I help feeling that if the genders reversed most of you would be on the woman's side?
Author LearnerBug Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 The guy is a total childish douche. Childish yet the name calling is done by who? anyway whats done is done and quite frankly regardless how society portrays women and their supposed virtue there are ladies and they should be treated as such, and there is the other kind the female version of what Sarah calls a 'douche' its practically pointless in trying to debate it I have come to that conclusion. Its so bad men have now been garnered to think that these conditions are correct. Its pathetic. For everything in life there is cause and a reaction, she created a cause which triggered a reaction. Masculism definitely the way forward. The funny thing was she's a Left Wing Feminist (although i admit she is just a hypocrite and pretty clueless when it comes down to the nitty gritty detail of it all) & to answer the other dudes question she actually did transmit an infection (although she claims its because she used soap where she wasn't supposed to and it wasn't actually sexually transmitted) Oh and legal action don't make me Laugh things work a little different over here mate. Fortunately
White Flower Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Couple Make Sex Tape, Does Not Show Males Face. First sign of mischief and intent. Female Deletes Sex tape but BY ACCIDENT a copy still exists. Unknown to both of them. There are no such things as accidents. Couple enter a social environment of their peers. Female begins to behave extremely promiscuous in this new environment. Says who, could it be the male??? Male Discovers copy argument breaks out as she believes he kept it on purpose. He did. She knows him well. Two are bitter towards each other Male (her recent promiscuous behavior) Female (he thinks he kept a sex tape) Well...yeah!!! He DID keep a sex tape! Female Cheats THREE TIMES! And we know this how? Male Sends video tape to Females Family Members. And the male isn't even M to her? So he can't claim property and s***? Who Is The One To Blame For The Break Down? Which breakdown??? Who Is The Worse Party Male or Female? OK, so the male wants to be old-fashioned enough to have his woman be 100% faithful to him even though they are not bound by M but not old-fashioned enough to protect her honor??? Forgot to mention the male was a known joke all around the Social Environment as the guy with the whore for a Girlfriend. Well if this was known no wonder he took the video just so he could use it against her after he got his kicks with her. He doesn't play fair. He set her up, used her in the process, and got his revenge far exceeding that of the norm. Writing her name on the bathroom wall would have sufficed. The Girl Claimed only to have stayed in the relationship out of fear of the videotape once she discovered it existed. I think I believe her. But what did it get her except for a ruined reputation even though her boyfriend got what he wanted and that was his jollies.
White Flower Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Why can't I help feeling that if the genders reversed most of you would be on the woman's side? No actually. I would have thought the woman to be just as low for sending videos out. I have videos I could send out but would never do so. Even if I found him cheating with someone else right now I wouldn't send the video out. It's called honor. The time he and I had meant something to me, I cherish it and always will. The video is just a beautiful reminder of our time together and is for no other eyes to see. TBH he has hurt me. But the video remains with me and will die with me.
Green Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Why can't I help feeling that if the genders reversed most of you would be on the woman's side? You seriously can't read between the lines of this guys story? He probably still has the video.... even to this day... still not deleted. He sent a sex tape to her family and who knows who else this guy has shown it too, I doubt he will ever let it get deleted like it was suposed to. If he was a real man he would have told the truth in the first place, and he would delete that video now.
impz Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 (edited) You seriously can't read between the lines of this guys story? He probably still has the video.... even to this day... still not deleted. He sent a sex tape to her family and who knows who else this guy has shown it too, I doubt he will ever let it get deleted like it was suposed to. If he was a real man he would have told the truth in the first place, and he would delete that video now. Exactly. What is recorded in that sex video is meant for private consumption and for the couple's eyes only. If your girlfriend is such a whore as TS stated, the best thing you can do is to be a BLOODY MAN about it, and don't stoop them to her level. However, you did, and in fact went lower than her. Well done, you just embarrassed a hell ton of decent guys out there, and makes people wonder why some women have that view that all guys are jerks . Be a honorable man for once, and please delete that video file. Your logic is an eye for an eye. Well, you had two eyes compared to one considering how much public embarrassment you gave her, her family and everyone (compared to only schoolmates here). Now, she should snap off your member to make it fair, ain't it? . It's a vicious cycle, and you should be mature enough to learn that there are such women out there, and the best thing you do is to be higher than THEM, not do the same bull**** as them. Put it this way, if the gender roles are reversed, that makes the guy a total cheater, and the woman a jerk. No difference there. Edited May 14, 2010 by impz
Ann_Igma Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Why can't I help feeling that if the genders reversed most of you would be on the woman's side? There was a recent thread of a betrayed OW who was contemplating sending a sex tape she had to the BS in her situation. Nobody in that thread was in favor of her sending it either. So you can rest assured that the reactions here aren't based on the OPs gender. To the OP: Yes, your xGF was out of line for cheating on you and yes, it does hurt. However your revenge tactic not only hurt her, but I'm sure it also caused hurt to family members of hers who had done you no wrong! And for no other reason, this is why you two are both as bad as each other. And not just that, it's not made you feel any better, has it? Not if the tone of your posts are anything to go by. The best revenge you can ever get on her is to live your life well and to the fullest.
candymoon Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Both people in this scenario suck, but one of those peple is a bigger loser. Unless the guy caught aids or something I say he is a much bigger loser because he should have just walked away from the situation, plus he is just as big a liar as she is for not deleting the recording like he said he did. Just because he meant to delete it and later found out it wasn't deleted doesn't make him less of a liar. My vote the guy is way worse and if I were the girl I would take legal action. By the way why didn't you delete it for good when she found the sex tape? YOU PROBABLY STILL HAVE IT Agreed. How much you wanna bet that vid is already uploaded to several "watch my ex-girlfriend" sites?
White Flower Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Agreed. How much you wanna bet that vid is already uploaded to several "watch my ex-girlfriend" sites? first they hurt you with the act, then they hurt you with the video of the act. I so had to replace another word with hurt so that I don't get banned.
Bejita463 Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 I don't even see how this is getting even. As embarrassing as it would be for her, no one who sees that video is thinking "Man, that guy totally got her!" They are thinking he is a petty, vindictive loser. What you've also done, is justified her cheating. Everyone is on her side because of that act, not yours. The family is not going to go "Man, our daughter just got served." They are gonna go "What a jerk. Why were you even with this guy?" It accomplishes absolutely nothing except to make you, not her, look bad.
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