mike1988 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 (edited) I would like to have your guy's (and girl's) opinion on an odd sexual experience I had last Summer. There was this 19 year old blond girl who worked at a store in the city I moved to. She was a cashier. We would exchange small talk when I was in there, which was once every few weeks or months...not often at all. She was skinny, long blond hair she often kept up and cute. A little quiet with a somewhat "tom boy" way about her. Well, one day last Summer I came in there and was talking to her while I was waiting for a medicine prescription to be filled. She said to me, "I don't wanna seem forward, but here's my number." This made me feel so good, being it was the first (and so far the last) time a girl has ever seemed interested in me to the point of giving me her number or asking me out. I said thanks, exchanged a few more words and left for home. About six hours later that night, I decided to call her. She lived in an apartment down the road with her roommate. I just called to chat and she insisted that I come over to her place to hang out. I was a bit reluctant, but after a while I agreed. Her and her 21 year old roommate picked me up and they had a platonic male friend of her roommates with them. We all went back to their apartment and smoked cigarettes, drank fruit punch and put on a DVD. Well, the girl who liked me was sitting next to me on the couch. I noticed how long her hair was, and she let it down. She looked really good. She said to her roommate something about crushing me by sitting too close and her roommate said, "I doubt he would mind if you're a bit close to him." I laughed and said, "I don't mind." After a few minutes, she noticed I couldn't stop looking at her hair. She looked at me and said, "You really like my hair, don't you?" I said, "Yeah" and we kissed. While we were kissing, the roommate and her platonic friend left the room to leave us alone. The girl begin moaning and swearing telling me "She swears when she gets horny." I was kissing her and put my hand on her shoulder. She hurriedly yanked up her shirt and pushed up her white bra and told me, "You can go underneath if you want." I kissed her breasts and sucked on them. Well, eventually she said I could "taste her". I pulled her jeans and black thong up her her thighs and went down on her, and I actually saw her eyeballs rolling into her head as if she was convulsing. She told me that she had first seen pictures of me when I brought film into the store to be developed and that she had been crazy about me and masturbated often thinking of me. Eventually, after I ate her out, we kissed and I went home after hanging out a bit more. She never did anything to me and we didn't have sex. (Although considering the intensity of the episode, it's actually quite surprising we didn't have an intense quickie on the couch.) I called her the next day and we hung out again, ordering a pizza. She and her friend opened up more and told me that when I'd come in the store, she'd text message her roommate "He's here...he's so hot", ect ect. I found this all to be very exciting and the thought of possibly beginning a relationship and knowing how badly this girl had wanted me all along made me feel attractive. Well, this is where things got weird. Later that night, we were fooling around again and this time I took off her jeans and saw marks all over her legs. She said she cut herself and that it's "punishment". I also found out she was bi-sexual and had done lesbian stuff and had never been with a guy until me. (Keep in mind, we never had sexual intercourse). Needless to say, this freaked me out. After I left that night, I went to bed when she called and said she was in my driveway and wanted to talk to me. She told me we "couldn't see eachother anymore" and that she thought I was a liar when she found out I haven't dated alot and she thought I was a "player". I told her that I was sorry she felt this way, and that I'd "see her around." About a month and a half later, out of the blue, her 21 year old roommate showed up in my driveway and wanted to know the full story of what occurred between us. I told her everything and she told me that the girl has serious issues with cutting herself and often talks about me in good ways but then gets angry and talks about me in bad ways. The roommate also said she caught her in lies regarding herself, the roommate and me and told other girls where she worked lies regarding me. I told her I was past the whole thing, and I hoped things work out. The next day, like clockwork, the roommate showed up in my driveway again. This time, she didn't seem to have much news...and I asked why she was really coming to see me. Her response was, "Well...I liked you alot too". We ended up hanging out a bit but never doing anything sexual. I found out she was going to approach me in the store because "I was hot" but she then found out that I was the guy her roommate kept talking about. Eventually, we quit talking and left on a good note, but I never had sex with either girl and never had contact with the original "crazy" girl. What the hell are your opinions on this experience? On one hand, it was intensely hot and I couldn't believe how desired I was by both women...on the other...the lesbian and self-inflicting wounds and "dumping" was quite strange. Edited May 13, 2010 by mike1988
Author mike1988 Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 I should add I went out briefly with the 21 yr old roommate who seemed to really like me but we both knew we were on dangerous ground and thus stopped it from continuing.
sagetalk Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Sounds like you ran into loose, crazy women. I'd try to forget about them and move on.
Enema Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Women: 1) Hot 2) Smart 3) Sane You can only pick two my friend.
Engadget Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Sounds like she's got issues, but that's something you already know. Sounds a lot like this girl I know too, who seems a bit unbalanced and called me a player as well for no reason.
Pfiend101 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 My ex cut herself. She will probably run into the arms of an abuser before a reg guy like you. Props though. Was she shaved?
sagetalk Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Women: 1) Hot 2) Smart 3) Sane You can only pick two my friend. The girls I've gone after have either been a 1 or a 1-2. Sane is hard to find . I knew one girl who was a 1-2-3 (at least I think she was sane ), and wow was she awesome.
Engadget Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 this scenario defies logic and reason[/quote It does sound outlandish, but you never know. The girl's house I stayed at last night, her and her roommate are less extreme versions of the girls in his story. One of them told me they make out, and I get the impression they do more. One brings over some creepy goth kid late at night, on and on.
Author mike1988 Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 My ex cut herself. She will probably run into the arms of an abuser before a reg guy like you. Props though. Was she shaved? Yes, completely. I'll say again, despite her clearly having issues and me glad I'm not involved in the weirdness, purely from a sexual standpoint, it was as of yet my hottest encounter. Reason being, she approached me, she told me she had wanted me for a long time and often masturbated to me (before she and I ever even hung out) and she was the only girl I've done anything sexual with closest to my age. (She was 19, I was 20.) That being said, we never actually had sex, and it's still the hottest thing I've ever been through...and the strangest.
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