Pentel Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 she asked for a time out, she said she feels something for me, but she don't think she will ever love me... it all started because im a jealous person and i get angry easily, so we where having a lot of fights recently, and she said she wanted to spend some time with her friends.... and i know she didn't cheat on me becase she was already cheated on with other 3 guys so she knows how it feels should i wait for her?, for how much time?
DenverBachelor Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 and i know she didn't cheat on me becase she was already cheated on with other 3 guys so she knows how it feels should i wait for her?, for how much time? Do you REALLY think being cheated on will keep someone from cheating? Are you being for real? Time out = break up = need space = need time = etc. Stick a fork in it -- it's done. Go NC and don't look back.
skydiveaddict Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Do you REALLY think being cheated on will keep someone from cheating? Are you being for real? Time out = break up = need space = need time = etc. Stick a fork in it -- it's done. Go NC and don't look back. agreed................
Toki Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Sorry to break it to you Pentel, but when she needs space, she means probably permanently. You need to get out of dodge, cause the cow has gone to different pastures. Time to go NC, and move on. You can do it!
Author Pentel Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 well atleast this wasn't as bad as the other time... but it still hurts tho =/ i will be NC for 3-5 days, i will talk to her as friends, but i won't make it for more than 10 minutes, and then we'll see if we get back together, if we don't NC all the way
ADF Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Don't wait. There are no suchs things as "time outs" or "breaks" in relationships. Those things are nothing but slow-motion break ups. People are just to chicken to be honest about it. Move on.
thedreg Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 gotta agree with everyone else man its over.. if i were you id forget about her and work on the angry jealous thing or you're just going to keep running into this problem..
Author Pentel Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 a mutual friend told me that she was thinkin a lot of it, because she didn't want to saay she wanted to be with me and then regret it or viceversa
Toki Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 and you honestly want to be with someone who is wishy-washy over you? I wouldn't waste my breath, stop kicking the horse, it's dead.
GrayClouds Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 is this the same one as before or someone new. If it is the old one way are you still playing this game? If it is a new one then you are having a habit of choosing commitment phoebes.
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 and i know she didn't cheat on me becase she was already cheated on with other 3 guys so she knows how it feels should i wait for her?, for how much time? Trust me, it doesn't stop them from cheating. My last boyfriend's exW cheated on him constantly, would get pregnant by other men, sleep with him once so that she could pin the pregnancy on him, and then get him to pay for the abortions. She cheated mercilessly and often. He was destroyed by this, absolutely destroyed. When he was with me, who treated him like a god - he cheated on me. Go figure. I didn't think it would happen. Let me tell you, it does. Be careful man. I would not wait for anyone who asked for a 'time out'. I'd simply hand it back to them twice, in the form of a permanent time out and not speak to them again. Life is too short to hang yourself by someone else's string, particularly this razor wire string your heart is tangled up in.
Author Pentel Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 is this the same one as before or someone new. If it is the old one way are you still playing this game? If it is a new one then you are having a habit of choosing commitment phoebes. its a new one, the old one im still NC even after her constantly trying to talk to me and yea i realise that im always after girl with problems
dan_the_man Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 well atleast this wasn't as bad as the other time... but it still hurts tho =/ i will be NC for 3-5 days, i will talk to her as friends, but i won't make it for more than 10 minutes, and then we'll see if we get back together, if we don't NC all the way The point of NC is not getting her back. The point is to use it to get over her and move on with your life. Also when a girl tells you she needs time out, what she really means is she wants to break up with you.
Author Pentel Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 The point of NC is not getting her back. The point is to use it to get over her and move on with your life. Also when a girl tells you she needs time out, what she really means is she wants to break up with you. i know the point of NC, i've read all about it and know all about itt and not always
Author Pentel Posted May 15, 2010 Author Posted May 15, 2010 i hate it when you guys are right we just talked on the phone and we ended it all
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