JL2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I'll try to keep this brief. Basically I had met this chic that recently moved in, exchanges numbers and basically she texted me all the time (still does) just asking how my day was or very random things. We went out on a few occasions, ended with making out a few times. Recently, she invited me out for a beer so we went out and later that night when I tried to kiss her she said she really couldn't do this right now (granted after that we still eneded up kissing). She basically said because she had just moved from LA and gotten out of a 3 year relationship. She said more than anything she needs friends right now and doesn't want to be impulsive and jump into anything. She did say she really likes that she can be herself around me and was really attracted to me. Does this seem genuine or more or less a sign to completely move on. In other words would being her friend still leave some potential or do more harm Thanks, UPDATE-So, first off thank you to everyone that responded to my first post. There was some point in the night (above) where a comment was made from her where she said if you can't be friends with me I understand. So this promptly fueled me today to stop being a little bit*ch and say 'friends really isn't going to work for me' so she comes back with : I know; I couldn't really tell what you though about me at first' Followed by another txt from her: "I'm just trying to hold on out on being more than friends with anyone until I get myself right : ( " I txted: Its cool just figure out you. I don't really know what you really think about me..but I'm sure it will become pretty clear in time (prob a bad txt but whatever). Her response: "I like you "insert name" You are a great guy. Don't worry what I think it doesn't matter right now. My response You're right. --So I thought this was the end..or should have been..and she comes back later that night and just says What are you up to? If you can interpret this please have at it..did I maybe turn the tables on her a little..she obviously was having her way with me before. Much Thanks,
Pfiend101 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Try not to read into texts too much. Either shes telling you the truth and needs time without a guy which you have to respect. Alternatively shes lying and isn't interested in you and but you wont know. I would drop out of the picture if you dont you will become that friend she was saying she needs.
phineas Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Just fall off the face of the earth. If she is texting she's being lazy trying to see if your still hooked. She's fishing for attention. If she texts things wanting to know what your doing, just tell her your busy or going out. Be vauge & make responces short. Don't initiate contact. IF she wanted to see you she would come right out & say so. Especially adfter making out with you & knowing what you want.
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