PickingUp Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 hey im new here, just wanted to put a question out there because this guy has me really confused. he came on to me really hard when we first met, we just chatted, flirted, did some texting, etc. then added me to myspace, stuff like that. it cooled off after a bit, weeks went by without us talking but we'd text every now and again, sometimes he would make it sexual, but i just kept it light and friendly. during this time we never so much as met up one day he asked me out, we had a lot of fun that night, hung out at a house party. we both drank he ended up taking me home because i had too much to drink. we cuddled on the couch and it was obvious he wanted sex but i didn't, and i told him that i barely knew him. after he realized i wasn't going to put out he asked me just to stay with him and fell asleep with me in his arms. after he was asleep i went to my bed and slept. the next morning was so awkward it seemed like he couldn't get out of there fast enough but he said the sweetest things the entire time, gave me the best hug and most tender kiss on the forehead. i texted him after that and he didn't respond.. he wrote to me a different day and our conversation was very short and meaningless. my friends told me he probably thinks i was being a tease and is pissed off. that makes me sad because i haven't been this into a guy in years!! there are others i'm talking to and dating but i can't get him out of my mind. i made it clear to him i really wanted him that night but also that i don't just jump into bed with guys the first time. when we see each other now it's just hi, hello, like nothing happened. it's so painful because i just want to touch him. should i give it another shot, ask if he's busy next weekend and see if we can do dinner or something (i dont even want to talk about that night or apologize for anything, i just want to hang out with him), or should i just let it blow over and wait until HE is ready to talk to me again? should i risk it to ask what he thought about that night, i don't want to seem clingy but i want some answers.. thanks.. life is too short..
Author PickingUp Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 oh also.. i'm just getting out of a very long, serious relationship as of the beginning of the year. he sort of knows this but i haven't told him how emotionally weird i feel. i really don't want to bring it up and possibly come off as crazy and insecure?
Rorschach Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I'm guessing he just wanted you for sex, when he saw you weren't just going to put out with little effort, he moved on. Guys like this give all guys a bad name.
Toki Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 life is too short.. Life is too short to sit around and do nothing. Life is too short to be told what to do. Life is too short to wonder what could have been. But most of all life is too short to worry about some douche that won't give even give the common courtesy of honesty the next time he wants to try to play you like a fool.
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