ussy Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Im on day 46 of NC and every time i tell myself how great ive done to get this far this voice in my head is always there saying "How can she not miss me after this long?" That thought kind of always ruins my mood, was wondering if anyone else experiences this.
DadofTwoGirls Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Instead of wondering 'why doesn't she miss you'...examine why you miss her...after 46 days...she doesn't miss you..sorry for the bluntness but SNAP OUT OF IT!!!!
alphamale Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 That thought kind of always ruins my mood, was wondering if anyone else experiences this. yes most people experience that
Yamaha Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 You get over it by telling yourself you deserve someone who wants to be with you. Think better of yourself.
hopesndreams Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Instead of wondering 'why doesn't she miss you'...examine why you miss her...after 46 days...she doesn't miss you..sorry for the bluntness but SNAP OUT OF IT!!!! If only it were that simple! You're doing great! Those thoughts will come and go. You'll get there, in your own time, as long as you stick to NC.
ginyi1111 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 happens to me all the time, and i have been NC for more than 6 months!!
Ilovecake Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Im on day 46 of NC and every time i tell myself how great ive done to get this far this voice in my head is always there saying "How can she not miss me after this long?" That thought kind of always ruins my mood, was wondering if anyone else experiences this. Nope. I however didn't treat NC the way most of the people here seem to. I never thought of it as a temporary thing, I didn't count days, I didn't pat myself on the back for not contacting someone who doesn't want to be in my life. It was more like he’s out of my life I'm never talking to him again, period end of story. One in a while I would wonder if he thinks of me in good terms or bad, was this painful for him at all? Those were just fleeting thought. The only thing that would truly ruin my day is when he was still trying to contact me even though I was obviously not speaking to him. I thought it was quite disrespectful that he was acting like nothing happened and it would sometimes make me angry for the entire day.
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