belt21 Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 My ex and i dated for 3 years, lived together for 2 1/2. This past February we broke it off cause i had cold feet and was scared of what i wanted. She wanted me to marry her, and the whole nine yards. We continued to talk off and on over the past couple of months. We also had our fights after the breakup but nothing horrible, just a bunch of disagreements. She actually came to me after two months and wanted to go out on a date with me. So we did that and then the next day she goes out on a date with this new guy and has been with him since. So now she has a new boyfriend and has been dating him for a month, and is completely in love with him. My mind was fogged over the breakup because of all the emotional stuff, and how everything changes dramatically so fast, but now i know what i want and its her. I went through the stages of calling her as much as i could texting as much as i could, and so forth, then dropped to the point of no contact for 2 weeks at a time. I dont know whether this is just a "rebound" or if this is for real. I do know how she is she is a person that cant be alone, and she falls for someone so fast. So its now been three months since the break up, and shes been with this guy for a month. What can i do? Do i just let that relationship go, and see where it ends, or just move on and give up on her. She has been doing everything that ive always asked her to do with this new guy. I just dont know what to think anymore.
Ilovecake Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Let it go. She's a person with real feeling and emotions not a flannel shirt that you can throw away one day then decide you want back the next because someone else likes it. The only reason you want her is because someone else has her. Don't be selfish, you broke her heart, now you need to let her move on with her life.
Author belt21 Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 I know... I wanted her back days later only to find out that she was talking with someone else after a week. Then when things went sour after talking with that other guy she comes to me and asks me out on a date. Then the next day dates this other guy.
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