singlelife Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 I find it interesting that guys that have money always have hot dates. What's up with that?
Rorschach Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 In my opinion this can be looked at in two ways. 1. Success is attractive, everybody loves it, male or female, and money is one of the easiest ways to define success (not the only one, but the easiest) 2. People who are rich, are normally rich for a reason, it takes hard work and effort to become right, people who are motivated to become rich are often motivated to achieve other things in life, like physical fitness, or a confident attitude, or whatever they deem important (I have a millionaire friend who has to be pushing 300+ pounds, but weight isn't important to him, so he never bothered to lose it). This sort of strong driven personality does 2 things, one it often leads a person to having desirable things, money, a nice body, a good attitude, but also the personality trait itself, is desirable to women. you can accept either of these 2 answers, I'm a believer in #2.
donnamaybe Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Because if you kick around in the gutter long enough, you can ALWAYS find a gold digger looking for a full wallet.
vanek26 Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 There are 2 main things that will attract women. The constant is physical attraction. In the High School years, popularity is the second factor. It's how you see a pretty girl dating someone who is hard to look at. If he's popular, he's desired. Women eventually grow out of that and instead look towards money. To win over an attractive woman, you need to either be good looking yourself or have a lot of money. I know there are exceptions... but overall I'd say this is accurate.
phineas Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Because if you kick around in the gutter long enough, you can ALWAYS find a gold digger looking for a full wallet. AWSOME! How's that song go? you gotta get a little dirty when you're digging for gold
donnamaybe Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 AWSOME! How's that song go? You got it, man! I would feel like such a useless POS if I were that kind of girl. And I could've been. I have higher standards for a man than the almighty dollar. Look at all the CEO's who have bilked old people out of their pensions lately.
Chrome Barracuda Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 I aint even gonna answer this dumbazz question! lol.
vanek26 Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 I have to give women credit on this one. I don't know if I could happily be in a relationship with an unattractive but rich woman. Makes you wonder if these girls cheat or if they actually trick themselves into being content.
Peaceful Guy Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 I aint even gonna answer this dumbazz question! lol. that's too ****ing funny.. i read this thread earlier.. saw that chrome had responded.. and was like.. i gotta see how he answers this!
LostInLA Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I find it interesting that guys that have money always have hot dates. What's up with that? Shallow attracts shallow.
gypsy_nicky Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 2. People who are rich, are normally rich for a reason, it takes hard work and effort to become right, people who are motivated to become rich are often motivated to achieve other things in life, like physical fitness, or a confident attitude, or whatever they deem important (I have a millionaire friend who has to be pushing 300+ pounds, but weight isn't important to him, so he never bothered to lose it). This sort of strong driven personality does 2 things, one it often leads a person to having desirable things, money, a nice body, a good attitude, but also the personality trait itself, is desirable to women. you can accept either of these 2 answers, I'm a believer in #2. I dont agree completely. Getting rich also means you need to step on a few heads to reach the top. Thats why we have business ethics and workplace politics.
NeptunedN Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Read any of the above posts.....I'll sum it up. Millions of years of evolutions = females need men with resources to ensure that they will be taken care of (as well as their offspring).
TaraMaiden Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I find it interesting that guys that have money always have hot dates. What's up with that? Money talks. Shallow attracts shallow. Oh yeah... That too.... Millions of years of evolutions = females need men with resources to ensure that they will be taken care of ..... In that case, we're going to need a bigger boat load of billionaires, because I ain't gettin' nuphin'..... Who took MY Billionaire, huh?? HUH - ?!?
Tim The Enchanter Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I have to give women credit on this one. I don't know if I could happily be in a relationship with an unattractive but rich woman. Makes you wonder if these girls cheat or if they actually trick themselves into being content. Much easier for them, because they can just lie back and think of Brad Pitt or whoever they're screwing on the side. Same with prostitutes: they will have sex with anyone, even if they are hideously ugly, fat and disgusting. With (straight) men, we can't have sex with someone unless we at least find them somewhat attractive. That includes when you are wearing beer goggles, because you at least think that you are shagging a good looking woman.
TaraMaiden Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 That's not true. I know a guy who happily shags what he considers to be the ugliest women on the planet. Mind you, he does put a paper bag over their heads.... And one morning, he woke up with a said girl in question, with her head resting on his arm. He was about to bite his own arm off rather than wake her, when thankfully, she rolled over.... (just to help people out here, that was supposed to be a joke.....)
start-fresh Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 And one morning, he woke up with a said girl in question, with her head resting on his arm. He was about to bite his own arm off rather than wake her, when thankfully, she rolled over.... I think they call that Coyote Ugly
Citizen Erased Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I may as well start a thread asking what colour the sky is. And why they "always" have dates...more money grubbing whores than rich guys willing to date money grubbing whores.
milkmaterial Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 im not by any means a gold digger. granted im lazy but if i pursue a career w/ passion i tend to do really good at it. when i met this guy last year, i was surprised to see myself being pleased by stuff he had..his car, stuff he can buy etc. he always seemed so darn generous even offering to give me a new computer or a new purse and we only met just briefly. just really generous w/ gifts and offering to bring food to me when i was sick. he seemed so confident, i was so drawn to it..i didnt understand why. i still dont. i do believe though that if u really love each other, even if u dont have much money, u will make it. there are lots of people who are rich and unhappy..
donnamaybe Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Read any of the above posts.....I'll sum it up. Millions of years of evolutions = females need men with resources to ensure that they will be taken care of (as well as their offspring). Correction: SOME women.
CuriousQDe Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Hmmm, the man I am just beginning a dating relationship is very well to do and works in a prestigious profession. But we didn't talk about our work for a good two weeks after met. I knew him as a fascinating guy who could talk about any subject, and that is what attracted me initially. After we met, I learned he could go on for hours about his work and I'm also attracted to his passion for his work. But it's something I'm nervous about, appearing like a gold-digger. I also have a guy who I think is interested in me, very stable and financially secure also, but not on the level of the first. He's just very shy and I think a touch insecure. I was happy to consider going out with him, but the first man's charms is overpowering, and I can't help but think his power has something to do with it. At any rate, I've my own accomplishments to be proud of, so I know their money is not my motivation. I just know men are on guard for this sort of thing and I don't want to appear that way.
phineas Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Why do bums always get women pregnant? This is a good question. It seems the majority of dudes who get hot women pregnant are allready married politicians & dudes with no job. your average rich guy doesn't seem to knock chicks up.
phineas Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 I think they call that Coyote Ugly If she's that ugly, they gnaw off the other arm in case she starts asking around for a one-armed man. That's double coyote ugly.
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