sumdude Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 OK she and I have been friends for a couple of years. At first I thought something might happen but it never did. Was OK being friends. So a few nights ago we were out partying and suddenly I made a move. We ended up making out hot and heavy for a couple hours and could've had sex. Saw her again a couple days later. Went out for a few drinks.. same thing at the end of the night. So the next night she calls and said she needed something she had left at my house months ago. She came by and we just hung out and talked, when I went to kiss her goodnight as she was leaving she seemed a bit unresponsive. She doesn't seem to want to talk about it though I didn't press.
TaraMaiden Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 She's backing off either because she doesn't want it, or she's scared to take it further because she doesn't want to spoil the 'history' you have. Maybe. Sometimes, you just have to come right out and ask.....
Peaceful Guy Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 i think you should do a little role reversal here.. imagine her posting Hmmm what's going on with this guy?.. i think it might give you some insight.. probably more than people here taking wild guesses and you ultimately deciding not to think about it anymore.. just sayin..
Author sumdude Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 i think you should do a little role reversal here.. imagine her posting Hmmm what's going on with this guy?.. i think it might give you some insight.. probably more than people here taking wild guesses and you ultimately deciding not to think about it anymore.. just sayin.. I see your point.. but getting insights from other women is helpful.
Peaceful Guy Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 I see your point.. but getting insights from other women is helpful. fair enough.. well, im pretty girly so ill take a shot at it.. she's wondering what it meant, where your going, if your interested in more that just a physical thing, should she ask you about, should she let it go..
phineas Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 You should of just had sex with her on the 2nd night. After all you've necked naked twice. You strapped on a pair & made the first move but now your just nuetral it seems. She's probably wondering why you didn't go all the way. Or what the other guy said, she wants to know where it's going. but it sounds like neither one of you are even talking about it.
Author sumdude Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 You should of just had sex with her on the 2nd night. After all you've necked naked twice. You strapped on a pair & made the first move but now your just nuetral it seems. She's probably wondering why you didn't go all the way. Or what the other guy said, she wants to know where it's going. but it sounds like neither one of you are even talking about it. LOL could be.. thing is the location wasn't exactly good for going further both times. I guess I wonder why I held back too but i tend to wait a couple nights. I've brought it up but she seems to get a bit evasive.
bac Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Perhaps she was not horny at that particular day. It is normal for girls not to be horny every day and every time unlike males. Girls have hormonal cycles and they made differently. But, many girls want emotional/intellectual connection almost daily. Most girls want to talk to other people to share their thoughts and feelings daily.
Author sumdude Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 So I wonder if I should call her and meet up to get this out in the open or let things cool off a bit and see if she gets in touch with me. lol what a typical conundrum..
phineas Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 LOL could be.. thing is the location wasn't exactly good for going further both times. I guess I wonder why I held back too but i tend to wait a couple nights. I've brought it up but she seems to get a bit evasive. Really? Ok, that can be annoying. As silly as it sounds asking someone you got half naked with twice, you have to ask: "what's the deal, we just friends or more than friends".
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