MoscaVia Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 My stbx and I have discussed switching residences once a week or so...so that he can have house time with the kids and I can have some apartment time to myself. At first we were going to birdnest 5-=50, each staying a week in the house and then a week at the apartment- so that the kids didn't have to go from place to place and could stay int he home. We were both fine with that UNTIL he found an absolutely awesome apartment in a great location and he loves it so much that he no longer wants to switch. Rats. (although he is still agreeing once per week). I have a couple of freinds who successfully birdnested. One did it for one year and the other for 3 years. Ofocarse, this can only work in a small percentage of divorce cases...it can only work if you are really amicable, which we are. Has anyone ever tried birdnesting? We have already discussed and agreed on the boundaries, etc.
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