timmytak Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 (edited) Alright well me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and 3 months, well I am a bit weird I think of things that happened or things that we talk about randomly even if it happened 6 months ago or even a year ago. Well something just popped in my head that happened I believe the 2nd or 3rd week we started dating. She got a text message from a guy who said he and his friend are ready for a threesome, something along those lines and I got pissed and was like let me call them and see whats going on because she told me she didnt know who they were she didnt let me call the person and deleted the text. So thinking about this I mean would some random guy that she didn't know text her and say this? I remember she didn't have the person contact name on her phone it was just a phone number. she has held some interest in doing a threesome but i told her no way with another guy. But anyhow I dont know if its for me to know if she really knew them or not? Its going to bother me now. Should I leave it alone or ask her about it i don't like to be lied to is all and it seems a little fishy? I dont know what it will do if I prove that she lied. I dont know like i said i am weird. What would you do? Edited May 12, 2010 by timmytak
TaraMaiden Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 I'd ask yourself why you are so insecure that you'd prefer to hang on to this cr*p instead of focussing on the fact that you guys have had it good for over a year. You're not weird, you're low-self-esteem obsessive.
PrettyinInk Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 i do this sometimes too, even resolved things i tend to have a difficult time letting go of; it is silly and will only cause you personal strife, and upset the relationship. this happened over a year ago, you let it go then, you cannot bring it up again. if it upsets you, and you do not trust her, then you should end the relationship, because you will get no resolution from talking to her about this. is there some reason why this popped into your head? are you guys going through a difficult time right now?
Dexter Morgan Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 she has held some interest in doing a threesome but i told her no way with another guy. so let me get this straight. you'd do a 3some, but only if another girl is involved? So its ok for you to be able to have another girl in the mix, but not for her to have another guy? how f####d is that? I say break up with her, you have a double standard.
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