GUYNY Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 so i meet a girl online, we went out had a great time on the first date a week ago. called her sunday for a second date but the only time she said she would be free is this coming up sat. the only communication we had was through a game on the iphone. so i have a few questions... 1. should i call before sat. since its only wed.? 2. its almost 2 weeks between dates (first was last tues. and second coming up this sat.) am i on her friend list or is it too soon to tell? 3. i'm clueless when it comes to dating rules, just always go with my gut. but i'm really diggin this girl and want to do everything right and not end up on her friend list. ladies please help.
phineas Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Unless she works nights or has kids I seriously doubt someone is so busy they can't fit you in for 2 weeks. Did she say why she was so busy? Did you verify a time for next sat? This is something that took me a while to learn even though I allready knew it. Nail down a date & time & even the activity. If a woman won't do that she is trying to brush you off. At least that has been my experiance lately.
Author GUYNY Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 (edited) thats what i thought she was trying to do (brush me off), but i thought differently when i only suggested the activity and she picked the time and place. she told me why she was busy with work, and it seemed reasonable. this is why i dont know what to do... she said she is busy and i want to respect that on the other hand, i dont want to be on her friends list if i end up waiting too long to communicate with her. Edited May 12, 2010 by GUYNY
bac Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 (edited) so i meet a girl online, we went out had a great time on the first date a week ago. called her sunday for a second date but the only time she said she would be free is this coming up sat. the only communication we had was through a game on the iphone. so i have a few questions... 1. should i call before sat. since its only wed.? 2. its almost 2 weeks between dates (first was last tues. and second coming up this sat.) am i on her friend list or is it too soon to tell? 3. i'm clueless when it comes to dating rules, just always go with my gut. but i'm really diggin this girl and want to do everything right and not end up on her friend list. ladies please help. If you met her online, it is dating. I mean if you met her on online dating site. Where online was it? If you pay for date and she is fine, you are dating. Try to kiss her on 2-3 date because you are probably dating. Making out on 4-5 date. Sex is possible on 6 date if you are adults. It is good to call once per 1-3 days. It is good to have dates at least once per week. How old are you that girls put you on their friends list? Edited May 13, 2010 by bac
Author GUYNY Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 ok, so, i just a got a text from her saying that she is has to cancel the date (day before the date) because she has to check in to hospital, and she is realy sorry about it. i said that it was cool, and wished shed get better. any truth to that or a blow off line? should i follow up with her or give it up? should i try to reschedule?
Author GUYNY Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 so what should i do, follow up with her in a day or two and try to reschedule?
Ihavenoidea Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 what have you got to lose, try and touch base and re schedule and stop following these "rules." they are more guidlines when you are lost anyway
espec10001 Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 You got a lot more patience than me man. If she's gonna cancel then I'd expect HER to reschedule, otherwise I'd just assume she isn't that into me and move on.
homersheineken Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 You got a lot more patience than me man. If she's gonna cancel then I'd expect HER to reschedule, otherwise I'd just assume she isn't that into me and move on. Yeah I agree. The hospital seems a bit extreme though, to break a date. Call and reschedule.
joeLove Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 If she cancels, it means she isn't interested ... or she is playing hard to get. Reschedule and make sure you nail down a date ... Oh ... in the meantime, don't sit home waiting for her or feel sorry for yourself. Go out and try to meet other girls ... maybe you find something better ...
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