highlyevolved Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Been with this guy for about 9 weeks now and most of the time I feel miserable. I'm a guy too btw to clear things up. I feel great with him usually but I only see him like once or twice a week and when we're apart it's useless. - He constantly flirts with someone else on facebook - commenting on their pics with "gorgeous <3" "ILY" etc. Last night he wrote on this guys fb that he " cant keep my eye open any longer waiting for u let me know what ur doing tomorrow day im not working" - Hasn't contacted me all day. The only form of contact that i've gotten is a post on my facebook wall which was to prove me wrong in something we discussed last week. -NEVER wants to go anywhere with me apart from hang at his house. I'm not going to text him til he texts me..thoughts? Should i just tell him that this "relationship" isn't really the type of adult relationship I'm looking for.
Frontliner Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Doesn't sound like the best relationship. You should probably just end it. Seems like you've made up your mind to end it anyway.
monkeywithagun Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 ugh,. im sorry:( this sucks,. but yes i think you should end things because he is obviously not trying to make things work. maybe you should try sitting with him and asking him what is up with all the flirting and stuff
sally4sara Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Sounds like you're getting the booty call treatment. If he were into you more, he'd want your time more.
TaraMaiden Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 9 weeks is nothing. 9 weeks is just enough time to let you see what might well work, and what won't. I guess this won't. If he's cruising FB and putting feelers out, that doesn't say much for what you guys have. But it speaks volumes about what you don't have. And what you don't have here is exclusivity and commitment. Time to stroll on and leave this one to its own devices? You want better? I'd go find it.
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