SteveC80 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 There is always someone who will find you attractive. For some, it might be more difficult to find it. But to imply that no woman would find your friend attractive is absurd. Well its been 30 years and nobody for him yet,i cant blame him for not wanting to go through thousands of women to maybe find one who finds him attractive or at least tolerates him physically
USMCHokie Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Shorter guys need to lower their standards,chacnes are slim that youll ever get a really good looking women, women with options arent gonna want you when they cna get a Tall guy but you can get a women who cant fidn a Man and cant get the hot tall guy most of us want Just lower your standards and look for the average or homely women This is one of those posts that is such a challenge to interpret...in most cases, I would just laugh this off as a nice attempt at sarcasm (like most of the Powerpoint breakup thread)...but there has been a rampant influx of 'woe-is-me' guys who are unfortunate enough to truly believe this...and then there's the spelling, grammar, capitalization, and disturbing lack of punctuation... I'm no longer going to try to question these guys' beliefs...as they seem to be as adamant about this as one might be about religion...but I truly don't know what to think about this one...
electricity Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Some people are just not attractive to the opposite sex this idea that what you look like shouldnt hold you back from getting somebody is fairytalish I have a friend great guy good personality trusthworhty but women arent physically attracted to him,i try to hook him up all the time with homely women figuring at least one of them woulld like him but no Based on your posts, I wonder about the personalities of the women you try to set him up with. Are they the same women who're throwing themselves at you b/c of your looks? Because if so, then you're probably setting him up with the wrong type of women. How about setting him up with women who have great personalities (how are you defining a good personality, btw? Fun? Nice? Goal-oriented? Level-headed? ??), and not just trying to pair women with him based on looks?
alphamale Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 lol i told you guys women love us Tall Men.Beign a Tall guy is the #1 most physically deisrable trait in the dating world women worship and lust over height. Doesnt mean short guys cant get women but you wont wow a women like tall guys do,the stuff we get away with for being blessed by god with height:cool: tall guys have bigger cocks also
Engadget Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 tall guys have bigger cocks also That I don't think is actually true. I'm 5'11'' and damn glad I am. Frankly I wouldn't want to be anything over 6', what's the point? My cousin is 6'7'' and it's more a burden than a blessing honestly, people look at him funny, constantly hitting his head, etc. Plus I've found that on message boards guys tend to exaggerate their height. Whenever you see it, everyone's super tall.
alphamale Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 That I don't think is actually true. in general taller people have larger organs, longer legs and arms, etc...it also means their genitalia will be larger. but this is not always the case.
Engadget Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 in general taller people have larger organs, longer legs and arms, etc...it also means their genitalia will be larger. but this is not always the case. Eh there's studies that go either way, but somehow I doubt it. Every guy that's 6'5'' won't be bigger than the guy that's 5'5''.
EricaH329 Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Well its been 30 years and nobody for him yet,i cant blame him for not wanting to go through thousands of women to maybe find one who finds him attractive or at least tolerates him physically Thousands of women? Let's be realistic. If he has the great qualities that you described, then there shouldn't be an issue. Unless he has a lack of confidence, or he is unable to talk to females. I suggest trying to work on those aspects. Based on your posts, I wonder about the personalities of the women you try to set him up with. Are they the same women who're throwing themselves at you b/c of your looks? Because if so, then you're probably setting him up with the wrong type of women. How about setting him up with women who have great personalities (how are you defining a good personality, btw? Fun? Nice? Goal-oriented? Level-headed? ??), and not just trying to pair women with him based on looks? Exactly!
elysium23 Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 I never said such a thing. Plenty of men claim that they're 'biologically wired' to want hot women. Plenty. You may agree or disagree with it, but it happens with both genders. Stop making this into a 'women' thing. This is true. A lot of guys DO say this. If you haven't heard it before, you're just not paying attention. A lot of guys are completely unapologetic about their physical standards and will bring them up a lot in conversation. So it's interesting to hear guys become all woe-is-me in the face of ONE physical standard coming from women. Try to be female and get dozens of physical expectations thrown at you daily: not only height but weight, hair color and length, skin color, breast size, butt size, etc. etc. and then hear excuses that it's just "biology," "health," and "good genes vs. bad genes," so we should just put up with it. Which is BS because the assumption that attractive people are more healthy is completely unfounded...There were studies trying to find the link between attractiveness and health and there was none that could be observed. So all these people that throw around the idea of "good genes" and attractiveness as an indicator of health are making an assumption based on faulty logic.
EricaH329 Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Nope im a model for Calvin Klein and get women throwing thmeselves at me[literally] all the time they love my confidence I apologize. I almost forgot that men who walk around in their underwear automatically assume they are models. Last time I checked, models for big companies such as Calvin Klein don't have time for forums such as this. Not trying to call you out... just trying to make the point that tall guys really aren't as great as they seem.
Els Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 I completely agree with Elswyth. This same concept can be applied to females. Men like looking at women with nice breasts and a nice butt. But what about the girls who don't have those attributes? Sure, some of us will get surgery, but the majority of us have to deal with it. How do we deal with it? By making up for it in other areas. Such as our personality. If you are a person that lacks what the majority of human beings believe to be 'above average' attributes, then we are left with (I shouldn't say 'left with', I should say 'blessed with') the people who are not shallow. Females get to have the man who doesn't care whether her body is a perfect 10, and men get to have the females who don't care about whether he is 6". I actually think we get the better end of the stick. Physical attributes shouldn't deter you from finding someone that wants to be with you. If you've fallen back on that excuse, then I highly suggest figuring out what it is about your personality or the way you carry yourself that's preventing you from finding someone. Great post. I remember a female cousin and I, in our teens, having a pillow talk about guys. I brought up the skin problems that we both have, and she said one of the wisest things I've heard in my life: 'It could be a blessing in disguise - at least when we have a guy, we'll know that he's with us not because of how we look, but because of who we are'. And it's true. Yes, I have had less male attention than many females my age. I have had far less relationships than many females my age. Am I bitter about it, do I whine about it? No, that's the way it is. And you know what? I would never have traded any of the guys I've ever been with (okay, maybe except the first, he was a bit of a douche) with the attention of 10 other men who want me because I'm hot. I consider my appearance a good filter, just as how some wealthy and powerful men hide their status from their dates early on because they want women to like them for the right reasons. I'm not saying this is the solution for everyone, but frankly there are only two: Do this, or change things about yourself that you think the opposite sex dislikes. Get height-extending surgery if you really want. It's nothing worse than women getting breast enhancements, buttlifts, etc. Whining only makes things worse for yourself.
EricaH329 Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Great post. I remember a female cousin and I, in our teens, having a pillow talk about guys. I brought up the skin problems that we both have, and she said one of the wisest things I've heard in my life: 'It could be a blessing in disguise - at least when we have a guy, we'll know that he's with us not because of how we look, but because of who we are'. And it's true. Yes, I have had less male attention than many females my age. I have had far less relationships than many females my age. Am I bitter about it, do I whine about it? No, that's the way it is. And you know what? I would never have traded any of the guys I've ever been with (okay, maybe except the first, he was a bit of a douche) with the attention of 10 other men who want me because I'm hot. I consider my appearance a good filter, just as how some wealthy and powerful men hide their status from their dates early on because they want women to like them for the right reasons. I'm not saying this is the solution for everyone, but frankly there are only two: Do this, or change things about yourself that you think the opposite sex dislikes. Get height-extending surgery if you really want. It's nothing worse than women getting breast enhancements, buttlifts, etc. Whining only makes things worse for yourself. Is there a way I can applause this post??
elysium23 Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Great post. I remember a female cousin and I, in our teens, having a pillow talk about guys. I brought up the skin problems that we both have, and she said one of the wisest things I've heard in my life: 'It could be a blessing in disguise - at least when we have a guy, we'll know that he's with us not because of how we look, but because of who we are'. And it's true. Yes, I have had less male attention than many females my age. I have had far less relationships than many females my age. Am I bitter about it, do I whine about it? No, that's the way it is. And you know what? I would never have traded any of the guys I've ever been with (okay, maybe except the first, he was a bit of a douche) with the attention of 10 other men who want me because I'm hot. I consider my appearance a good filter, just as how some wealthy and powerful men hide their status from their dates early on because they want women to like them for the right reasons. I'm not saying this is the solution for everyone, but frankly there are only two: Do this, or change things about yourself that you think the opposite sex dislikes. Get height-extending surgery if you really want. It's nothing worse than women getting breast enhancements, buttlifts, etc. Whining only makes things worse for yourself. This made me feel a lot better about the insecurity issues i have been dealing with lately. Thank you!
SteveC80 Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 Thousands of women? Let's be realistic. If he has the great qualities that you described, then there shouldn't be an issue. Unless he has a lack of confidence, or he is unable to talk to females. I suggest trying to work on those aspects. Exactly! No he has a great personality women just arent physically attracted to him I told him he has to wait about 5 or so years so women near his age are in desperation mode and are just looking to find soembody nice to have a family with,women around his age now are just looking to find the hottest posible guy they can get with what they have
Author OpenGL Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 No he has a great personality women just aren't physically attracted to him I told him he has to wait about 5 or so years so women near his age are in desperation mode and are just looking to find somebody nice to have a family with,women around his age now are just looking to find the hottest possible guy they can get with what they have I just want to thank you for your brutal honest these past few days. I'm glad there's at least one guy on this forum on the other side reporting back to us the truth about women and dating.
Els Posted May 14, 2010 Posted May 14, 2010 This made me feel a lot better about the insecurity issues i have been dealing with lately. Thank you! Is there a way I can applause this post?? Thanks, guys. I suspect many of the men the OP is talking about will just skim past it and carry on in whatever they plan to whine about today, however. Can bring a horse to water, can't make it drink.
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