ultagal99 Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 this is my first post on these boards... so please bear with me. i know i probably will get the not sleeping with him for the most part. Us both being in our late 20's.. i thought he wanted a relationship as do i. and he didnt mind i lived 2 1/2 hours away the whole time we talked during the past week some nights till 3am or later if i didnt have to get up early the next day. .. it was a great first date, we had good chemistry, laughed alot, flirted a lot, he paid for everything...( side question..do guys expect sex if they pay for your date/activities??) Anyways after the being out in public and minor flirtations hand holding etc.. we ended up having a pretty hot makeout session in his car at the end of our 8 hour date. He wanted to sleep with me but i said no.. not yet.. plus i was on my period. i know some guys dont care about that but i think its gross. i didnt say i wouldnt ever sleep with him.. just not then. We fooled around some more.. he gave me a great O, but i couldnt get him to with a bj/handjob.. i felt crummy after that. he said it was ok and usually he couldnt unless it was sex. What a cop out really i thought..but whatever. i still wasnt going to f him. We talked and laughed afterwards.. he said he could talk to me all night. and by this time it was 3am and i felt bad because he had a 2 hour drive home. So he drove me back to my car.. we kissed/ said our goodbyes.. and he called me on his way home saying he had a good time etc.. Next day rolls around.. no calls from him just a few texts here or there.. and a final one at night saying he was tired and would talk to me tomorrow. Monday he calls me before he leaves for work.. said what a great time he had, etc.. but he was thinking all day the day before.. and was dreading this convo.. but he thinks the distance is too far with his job (he works 3-11) and i work 12-8.. but both have weekends off.. so i dont know what the deal is. He should of known what he was doing before he came up here for the 1st date and poured out his heart to me in a matter of a week and a half.. and now just wants to be friends so he says. uggghh. was it because i didnt sleep with him for real or do you really think its the distance??? i really miss talking to him and were friends on facebook and he messaged me last night but i just couldnt talk to him...i miss hearing his voice before i go to bed. and his laugh.. should i contact him down the road.. or just let him go completely..
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