alg24 Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Close friends told me if I kept things up with MM things would end very ugly. If you have read previous posts... I got exMM's clothes back to him a couple weeks ago. I've literally left things alone. HE made contact with me. I will not lie, the last week of April I did see him... But he was the one who showed up at my house. He was the one that tried to sleep over. Regardless the past month as I've mentioned MM, W, and myself have been getting crazy phone calls and text messages. I guess W has been getting various numbers calling her and texting her. The last 2 1/2 weeks I've been getting restricted calls.. Many hang ups etc. Saturday MM called me freaking accusing me of destroying his garage and W's truck... So today I get a call from the police.. I meet with the officer. He was VERY nice... Actually asked me what I was doing with MM. He told me "The big question is how MM got a girl like you." Not important, but I guess MM and W went to the police station and told the deputy that I am behind all of these phone calls and text messages. Most of which are in spanish! I cannot read, write, or speak spanish... These people who are harassing everyone said that I requested they harass W. I said to the police where is the proof of this and morally how can you belief these people. If I asked my best friend to text or phone call disgusting sick things they would NEVER do that! Then the W told the deputy that I keyed her car and smashed her garage (the deputy told me he shot her down and said there is no proof so she needs to stop claiming that) I told the deputy that I do not need to try and defend myself. But what I do not understand is MM and I have been involved for over two years. This season (October- April) he and I had many fights and ended it for roughly a month. During that time nobody was harassed or property damaged! He was originally suppose to leave May 1st--- two weeks before that all of this stuff has started! The deputy told me that he just wants all of this to stop. They have enough that they could attempt to charge me for something! What??? People texting W horrible things and saying I requested them to do that?? Not to mention I've been harassed! Do you think I enjoy being texted 2AM "Herpes whore" but I do not blame people. So anyway I told the deputy of course any involvement on my end I will stop. Couple hours later I got restricted phone calls and actually text messages! This is beyond childish, drama filled to the brim, and disgusting. As I told the deputy I told MM a couple weeks ago I want him happy, and things good for everyone... I told the W a long time ago I do not have a problem with her and respect her... My pain and mental obsessing is one thing, but to be blamed for this?? The W has texted me mid season that this man is nuts and looking forward to divorce... Tells everyone she cannot stand him... She knows that he has herpes, gave me herpes, and she does not have herpes. Watched him lie, cheat, and treat her like crap through there marriage. This whole season she knew he was with me... Then all of this happens and they both go into the police station and write reports blaming me! He lost his job a couple weeks ago and has been living in the house with her. End of April when I saw him I guess she took her ego trip and kicked him out of the house... So yes that is my venting I will NOT contact him But being contacted by the "harasser" I sent the deputy an email. Anyway, OW/OM keep away from the BS! I truly don't blame the W for having her negative feelings towards me BUT all of this disgusting sick messaging she needs to open her eyes and see that perhaps its the Hs wrong doing. The deputy told me and told the W that 99% of this is MM I think my 21 year old body aged ten years... I do not enjoy this drama! I've been keeping away
whichwayisup Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Couple hours later I got restricted phone calls and actually text messages! This is beyond childish, drama filled to the brim, and disgusting. Did you call the police and show them the texts? If not, save them and go to the police station tomorrow. This whole thing is ridiculous now. And, because now the police are involved, it's time to talk to your parents. Time to tell your dad that you're getting harrassed and he HAS TO change the cell number. You have to do this. Or, throw out that phone, smash it into tiny pieces and tell your dad the phone fell out of your purse. There's NOT ONE GOOD reason now to keep that phone.. Phone=Drama. HE made contact with me. I will not lie, the last week of April I did see him... But he was the one who showed up at my house. He was the one that tried to sleep over I can't remember, did you let him in? Anyway, say no from now on. I hope you hate him, enough to get him out of your blood forever.
bittersweet memories Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Close friends told me if I kept things up with MM things would end very ugly. If you have read previous posts... I got exMM's clothes back to him a couple weeks ago. I've literally left things alone. HE made contact with me. I will not lie, the last week of April I did see him... But he was the one who showed up at my house. He was the one that tried to sleep over. Regardless the past month as I've mentioned MM, W, and myself have been getting crazy phone calls and text messages. I guess W has been getting various numbers calling her and texting her. The last 2 1/2 weeks I've been getting restricted calls.. Many hang ups etc. Saturday MM called me freaking accusing me of destroying his garage and W's truck... So today I get a call from the police.. I meet with the officer. He was VERY nice... Actually asked me what I was doing with MM. He told me "The big question is how MM got a girl like you." Not important, but I guess MM and W went to the police station and told the deputy that I am behind all of these phone calls and text messages. Most of which are in spanish! I cannot read, write, or speak spanish... These people who are harassing everyone said that I requested they harass W. I said to the police where is the proof of this and morally how can you belief these people. If I asked my best friend to text or phone call disgusting sick things they would NEVER do that! Then the W told the deputy that I keyed her car and smashed her garage (the deputy told me he shot her down and said there is no proof so she needs to stop claiming that) I told the deputy that I do not need to try and defend myself. But what I do not understand is MM and I have been involved for over two years. This season (October- April) he and I had many fights and ended it for roughly a month. During that time nobody was harassed or property damaged! He was originally suppose to leave May 1st--- two weeks before that all of this stuff has started! The deputy told me that he just wants all of this to stop. They have enough that they could attempt to charge me for something! What??? People texting W horrible things and saying I requested them to do that?? Not to mention I've been harassed! Do you think I enjoy being texted 2AM "Herpes whore" but I do not blame people. So anyway I told the deputy of course any involvement on my end I will stop. Couple hours later I got restricted phone calls and actually text messages! This is beyond childish, drama filled to the brim, and disgusting. As I told the deputy I told MM a couple weeks ago I want him happy, and things good for everyone... I told the W a long time ago I do not have a problem with her and respect her... My pain and mental obsessing is one thing, but to be blamed for this?? The W has texted me mid season that this man is nuts and looking forward to divorce... Tells everyone she cannot stand him... She knows that he has herpes, gave me herpes, and she does not have herpes. Watched him lie, cheat, and treat her like crap through there marriage. This whole season she knew he was with me... Then all of this happens and they both go into the police station and write reports blaming me! He lost his job a couple weeks ago and has been living in the house with her. End of April when I saw him I guess she took her ego trip and kicked him out of the house... So yes that is my venting I will NOT contact him But being contacted by the "harasser" I sent the deputy an email. Anyway, OW/OM keep away from the BS! I truly don't blame the W for having her negative feelings towards me BUT all of this disgusting sick messaging she needs to open her eyes and see that perhaps its the Hs wrong doing. The deputy told me and told the W that 99% of this is MM I think my 21 year old body aged ten years... I do not enjoy this drama! I've been keeping away Change your phone number ASAP...problem solve.
whichwayisup Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 I truly don't blame the W for having her negative feelings towards me BUT all of this disgusting sick messaging she needs to open her eyes and see that perhaps its the Hs wrong doing. Detach and let go. That's her husband and if chooses to stay married to him, so be it. Not your business and you shouldn't care either way. She loves him and can't be objective.. No different than you afew months ago when you chose to believe his lies. Now, you've woken up, which is great! Again, take the next step. Get rid of the phone. Do it!
califnan Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Do you have any indication of who could be doing this? Regardless, the burden of proof is on them - I would think. Be sure to keep your residence and vehicle secure. Do not be on foot, alone at night - at this time, etc..
sweetjasmine Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 The deputy told me that he just wants all of this to stop. They have enough that they could attempt to charge me for something! What??? Call a lawyer.
Author alg24 Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 Detach and let go. That's her husband and if chooses to stay married to him, so be it. Not your business and you shouldn't care either way. She loves him and can't be objective.. No different than you afew months ago when you chose to believe his lies. Now, you've woken up, which is great! Again, take the next step. Get rid of the phone. Do it! Of course! 100% NOT my business. But it just frustrates me beyond how I am being accused of this.
Author alg24 Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 Do you have any indication of who could be doing this? Regardless, the burden of proof is on them - I would think. Be sure to keep your residence and vehicle secure. Do not be on foot, alone at night - at this time, etc.. I truly do not. MM is gone usually 6 months out of the year... Perhaps he upset someone during this time? But the deputy said W has enough proof. These people harassing her and sending nasty things, 1-2 of them said I was behind it! And its all she said he said... I don't understand how you can believe a person who would still send such disgusting things! The deputy was told that that she said i am getting people to harass her by email, facebook, (I do NOT know her email or facebook), videos were sent to her of MM and I (I would like to see this)...
Author alg24 Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 Did you call the police and show them the texts? If not, save them and go to the police station tomorrow. This whole thing is ridiculous now. And, because now the police are involved, it's time to talk to your parents. Time to tell your dad that you're getting harrassed and he HAS TO change the cell number. You have to do this. Or, throw out that phone, smash it into tiny pieces and tell your dad the phone fell out of your purse. There's NOT ONE GOOD reason now to keep that phone.. Phone=Drama. I can't remember, did you let him in? Anyway, say no from now on. I hope you hate him, enough to get him out of your blood forever. i am 100% changing my cell phone number in the next couple days BUT what I fear is IF they continue to get harassed I CANNOT control it and if they go back to the police and blame me... I did let him in =/
Author alg24 Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 It just is so disgusting and upsetting I can be blamed for this... Its a bunch of childish bull**** of he said she said. And I can understand how the W feels BUT do not put blame on someone because you need to blame someone! A week and a half ago I was laying down next to MM and I was stroking his hair the way he loved me to... I told him that everything would be okay... Relax... Not worth stressing, but everything will work out... I told him later on that I wanted things drama free and happy. I want him happy. Of course I care so much about him, but this is not forever and very much impossible. But when you care about someone you want them happy, and I want him/you to be happy. The way I hope you would want that for me. ANYWAY The deputy could see a lot of the bull.... He mentioned 99% of the problem is MM BUT he cannot control if they want to go ahead and press charges.
bentnotbroken Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 First, don't blame the BS so easily. You said he is a serial cheater, it is entirely possible that there is OOW (maybe he is channeling Tiger Woods) who is trying to remove both of you from the picture. Change your number, block his emails and don't answer the door anymore. Lesson learned.
bananalaffytaffy Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 (edited) First, don't blame the BS so easily. You said he is a serial cheater, it is entirely possible that there is OOW (maybe he is channeling Tiger Woods) who is trying to remove both of you from the picture. Change your number, block his emails and don't answer the door anymore. Lesson learned.I agree with Bent on everything but the last sentence. You have not learned your lesson. Had you learned your lesson, you would have walked away from all this crap weeks ago. You come here and vent, but you do nothing to solve your problem. You continue to associate yourself with MM in some way or another. You initiate NC, then you let him sleep in your bed, and God knows what else. Your friends have warned you, everyone on LS has warned you, yet you continue this nonsense with this guy. I think that if MM would be nice to you and stop jerking you around, you would keep him. But you two are in this stupid cycle of jerking each other around. The texts are not the problem. Right now, the texts are what is holding you together. Pretty sick if you ask me. Why don't you just take him back? It's what you want anyway. Let him move back in and see for himself it's not you sending the texts. He's getting divorced after all, and the stbx doesn't want him. Did he receive any calls or texts while he was lying in your bed? Edited May 12, 2010 by bananalaffytaffy
Author alg24 Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 Did you call the police and show them the texts? If not, save them and go to the police station tomorrow. This whole thing is ridiculous now. And, because now the police are involved, it's time to talk to your parents. Time to tell your dad that you're getting harrassed and he HAS TO change the cell number. You have to do this. Or, throw out that phone, smash it into tiny pieces and tell your dad the phone fell out of your purse. There's NOT ONE GOOD reason now to keep that phone.. Phone=Drama. I can't remember, did you let him in? Anyway, say no from now on. I hope you hate him, enough to get him out of your blood forever. A deputy came to my house this morning and spoke to me... He said there is not a lot that can be done... The best thing to do is ignore and change my number. I will be changing my number ASAP. I did let him in a week and a half ago =/ Anyway, I don't think there is much the police can do. He said if there is proof of threatening (I am going to kill you etc.) They can go to the courts and try to get a call log... But thats a process... This harassing (yes a crime) is difficult to prove and the best is to change your number.
Author alg24 Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 Detach and let go. That's her husband and if chooses to stay married to him, so be it. Not your business and you shouldn't care either way. She loves him and can't be objective.. No different than you afew months ago when you chose to believe his lies. Now, you've woken up, which is great! Again, take the next step. Get rid of the phone. Do it! Its not my business in anyway! But what was upsetting to me is they can go to the police station... Both file reports and point fingers at me but yet this is because of MM! I am getting these crazy harassing phone calls and it has something to do with MM. I do not blame the W at all. I feel awful for her... she did NOT deserve to be put in the middle of this at all! But instead of going to the police, blaming me why don't you look at the man you allow in your house at night and maybe think he had something to do with this!! Not my problem at all what her choices are, and I could care less... When she texted me a couple weeks ago she is done with MM and heading for divorce and does not care if he and I speak I told her I do not care and its not my business. I told her I wished her the best of luck and I truly wish her much happiness in the future.
Author alg24 Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 First, don't blame the BS so easily. You said he is a serial cheater, it is entirely possible that there is OOW (maybe he is channeling Tiger Woods) who is trying to remove both of you from the picture. Change your number, block his emails and don't answer the door anymore. Lesson learned. I truly do not blame the BS. I feel AWFUL for her. BUT I do not appreciate how at night I am getting text messages and phone calls... Being told I am a herpes whore... etc. etc. Obviously the same thing is happening to them BUT instead of changing their numbers etc. they blame me
Author alg24 Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 I agree with Bent on everything but the last sentence. You have not learned your lesson. Had you learned your lesson, you would have walked away from all this crap weeks ago. You come here and vent, but you do nothing to solve your problem. You continue to associate yourself with MM in some way or another. You initiate NC, then you let him sleep in your bed, and God knows what else. Your friends have warned you, everyone on LS has warned you, yet you continue this nonsense with this guy. I think that if MM would be nice to you and stop jerking you around, you would keep him. But you two are in this stupid cycle of jerking each other around. The texts are not the problem. Right now, the texts are what is holding you together. Pretty sick if you ask me. Why don't you just take him back? It's what you want anyway. Let him move back in and see for himself it's not you sending the texts. He's getting divorced after all, and the stbx doesn't want him. Did he receive any calls or texts while he was lying in your bed? I see where you are coming from but in the same notion I don't appreciate what you are saying. I am beyond thankful for what everyone here on LS has said. I've seen many people here on LS do well with NC and then have there weak moments. I do NOT pretend to be miss perfect. This is VERY difficult for me. MM and I are done! He is actually living at home with the "stbx" and that is there business NOT mine. I wish them both much happiness in there future, I said that truthfully. I would not take him back and he wants nothing to do with me. When all of this started, the first couple nights he came over very late (12ish) and we had not received any texts/ calls. During the day my phone would go off (my friend who is in her 40s was witness to this) I was at the horseshow and she had my phone... While I was out in the middle of the ring setting jumps (using both of my hands to move the jumps!) she saw my phone lighting up. I DO NOT SPEAK OR WRITE SPANISH! As I said Its officially done with MM. I shall be changing my phone number...
bananalaffytaffy Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 At this point, I don't know whether to hug you or slap you. I did not post out of any disrespect toward you. I meant to point out that your actions do not match your words. And at this point, since you have not removed yourself from the situation, all the drama is on you. You continue to participate. I've seen many people here on LS do well with NC and then have there weak moments. I do NOT pretend to be miss perfect. Then this is the longest breakup I have seen in my life. There is only one other on here that has continued to let MM back in as many times as you have. Sure, everyone has weak moments. But again, you do not do the work to change your situation. You do the same things, but expect a different result. Everyone here gives you advice, but so far, it looks like you have ignored that advice. Like I said, you come here to vent, but don't seem interested in changing the situation. You expect your MM to get tired of you and change the situation himself. That's not going to happen as long as you continue to make yourself available.MM and I are done! Then act like it! A person who is "done" with another person, does not let that person sleep in her bed, nor does she stroke his hair and tell him everything will be okay. A person that is done with another person changes their phone number, blocks all calls, cuts all contact, even gets another job if necessary. You have allowed yourself to continue to be dragged into this texting drama. He is actually living at home with the "stbx" and that is there business NOT mine. I wish them both much happiness in there future, I said that truthfully.If you were done, you wouldn't care what he and his family did. In fact, you probably wouldn't even know what was going on with him and his family, because you would be so far detached from the situation.I would not take him back and he wants nothing to do with me. Oh really? Then why do you two continue to torment each other? Why does he come to your home? Why do you let him in when he does? Why do you keep saying it is over because HE is done? Why aren't YOU done? Again, this must be the longest breakup ever. Two or three weeks ago, you said he was done. Yet he came back didn't he? And you let him in. The next time he knocks at your door, you will let him in again. You say you have weak moments, yet you do little to nothing to take yourself out of the situation where these weak moments occur. As I said Its officially done with MM. I shall be changing my phone number...Fantastic. This is a very good start in making your actions match your words. Just make sure that MM doesn't get that new phone number.
whichwayisup Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Glad to hear you're changing your number. Document between now and the time you do get your number changed, all that is texted to you by (I assume it's MM or a friend of his, or maybe another OW) the texter. Go buy a voice activated recorder and keep it in your purse. Just incase... Keep the Cops up to date on what's going on. You are right, this is a he said, she said thing and now you need to protect yourself. Your MM is really f*ked up in the head and I hope whatever "love and care, nice feelings" you once had for him are gone. He is NOT who you thought he was.
bananalaffytaffy Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Alg, I know my posts seem harsh. I really don't mean them to be. I do know you are hurting, and I am sorry for that. But I can not for the life of me figure out why you continue to let him dictate the terms of your relationship. I'm sad that you haven't changed your number before now. That it's taken police involvement for you to do so. To me, the fact that you let him sleep over is far more important than this texting nonsense. Every time he contacts you, you respond, even if it's only to defend yourself. Every time he comes over, you get weak and let him in. I know it's hard. I really do. One of my oldest friends has been in a destructive relationship for well over 20 years now. She can't say no to him, for whatever reason. She lets him tell her when it's over and when it's not. When he comes calling, she lets him in. When he throws her out like trash, she cries. She's now a drunk with zero self worth that has taken every antidepressant known to man. She will not take control over her own happiness, she depends upon him for it. I'm not comparing you to her, but I think you are letting your MM control far more of your life than he needs to.
sally4sara Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Anyone consider that the BS is behind it? He has herpes, gave you herpes, wife claims she is not infected. The herpes had to come from SOMEWHERE. So its either another OW or the wife is setting people up as revenge.
bananalaffytaffy Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Anyone consider that the BS is behind it? He has herpes, gave you herpes, wife claims she is not infected. The herpes had to come from SOMEWHERE. So its either another OW or the wife is setting people up as revenge.I don't know who's behind it, but we all know who is in the center of it- MM. And the cop was right, 99% of this is MM. I just desperately wish that Alg would see that she does not need to participate in this in any way. Every time she defends herself, she just adds grist to the mill. Hopefully her changing her number will take her out of this silly loop.
califnan Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 First, don't blame the BS so easily. You said he is a serial cheater, it is entirely possible that there is OOW (maybe he is channeling Tiger Woods) who is trying to remove both of you from the picture. Change your number, block his emails and don't answer the door anymore. Lesson learned.[/quote --------------------- I had wondered this too .. that there may be another OW around. Also, if messages continue to be received by alg - I would hope any proof could be used in her favor, if they really do press charges..
White Flower Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Close friends told me if I kept things up with MM things would end very ugly. If you have read previous posts... I got exMM's clothes back to him a couple weeks ago. I've literally left things alone. HE made contact with me. I will not lie, the last week of April I did see him... But he was the one who showed up at my house. He was the one that tried to sleep over. Regardless the past month as I've mentioned MM, W, and myself have been getting crazy phone calls and text messages. I guess W has been getting various numbers calling her and texting her. The last 2 1/2 weeks I've been getting restricted calls.. Many hang ups etc. Saturday MM called me freaking accusing me of destroying his garage and W's truck... So today I get a call from the police.. I meet with the officer. He was VERY nice... Actually asked me what I was doing with MM. He told me "The big question is how MM got a girl like you." Not important, but I guess MM and W went to the police station and told the deputy that I am behind all of these phone calls and text messages. Most of which are in spanish! I cannot read, write, or speak spanish... These people who are harassing everyone said that I requested they harass W. I said to the police where is the proof of this and morally how can you belief these people. If I asked my best friend to text or phone call disgusting sick things they would NEVER do that! Then the W told the deputy that I keyed her car and smashed her garage (the deputy told me he shot her down and said there is no proof so she needs to stop claiming that) I told the deputy that I do not need to try and defend myself. But what I do not understand is MM and I have been involved for over two years. This season (October- April) he and I had many fights and ended it for roughly a month. During that time nobody was harassed or property damaged! He was originally suppose to leave May 1st--- two weeks before that all of this stuff has started! The deputy told me that he just wants all of this to stop. They have enough that they could attempt to charge me for something! What??? People texting W horrible things and saying I requested them to do that?? Not to mention I've been harassed! Do you think I enjoy being texted 2AM "Herpes whore" but I do not blame people. So anyway I told the deputy of course any involvement on my end I will stop. Couple hours later I got restricted phone calls and actually text messages! This is beyond childish, drama filled to the brim, and disgusting. As I told the deputy I told MM a couple weeks ago I want him happy, and things good for everyone... I told the W a long time ago I do not have a problem with her and respect her... My pain and mental obsessing is one thing, but to be blamed for this?? The W has texted me mid season that this man is nuts and looking forward to divorce... Tells everyone she cannot stand him... She knows that he has herpes, gave me herpes, and she does not have herpes. Watched him lie, cheat, and treat her like crap through there marriage. This whole season she knew he was with me... Then all of this happens and they both go into the police station and write reports blaming me! He lost his job a couple weeks ago and has been living in the house with her. End of April when I saw him I guess she took her ego trip and kicked him out of the house... So yes that is my venting I will NOT contact him But being contacted by the "harasser" I sent the deputy an email. Anyway, OW/OM keep away from the BS! I truly don't blame the W for having her negative feelings towards me BUT all of this disgusting sick messaging she needs to open her eyes and see that perhaps its the Hs wrong doing. The deputy told me and told the W that 99% of this is MM I think my 21 year old body aged ten years... I do not enjoy this drama! I've been keeping away My dear, dear dear! Wow. First of all, this man is a genius. If you didn't give him herpes, then is OOW did, and gave you all her wonderful gift that keeps on giving. I am so sorry for you. I believe you by the way; otherwise you wouldn't come here and post with such a vent. Anyway, trust me, he needed you to be the scapegoat so that he can protect his new FB. Sorry babe, it's so obvious from the outside looking in. I'd have him followed for a day or two and get the info on his new main squeeze. True, he may have done the nasty keying and other fine work but it could also be from another OW. Either way, you can send the pics of his new gal to his W and the police to get them ALL off your back. Hugs dear. Hope it all ends soon. Stay away from that one!
ladydesigner Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Sorry sweetie that you have to endure all this bulls**t. Definitely stinks like OOW. You don't deserve all this at such a young age. I wish I could give your XMM a big kick in the a**.
torranceshipman Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Your MM is really f*ked up in the head and I hope whatever "love and care, nice feelings" you once had for him are gone. He is NOT who you thought he was. Well said. You need to get this freak out of your life now - he is a twisted nasty piece of work, clearly prepared to see you in jail (yes, in JAIL) just to get his cowardly ass out of trouble with his W. What a loser - and someone that clearly doesn't care about your wellbeing. He does still want to have sex with you though, given that he came sniffing around your place a couple of weeks ago. Imagine that...trying to have sex with you one week, reporting you to the cops the next. Get rid of your phone. This is ridiculous drama and everything sounds nasty and a bit threatening now. Btw this post should be a sticky!-as a reminder that MM's can go from 'you are the love of my life' to 'thrown under a bus' at lightning speed. Out of interest, what did he used to act like/tell you about leaving his W?
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