lizita14 Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 My sister who is 18 ran away from home about 5 months ago. Ever since then she has wanted no contact between me and my parents. Although she has recently spoken to my other sisters and brother. It bothers me that she doesn't care about me..I have always been there for her. But it's her choice and I can't force her to speak to me. Anyway...not too long ago my little sister who's 16 had surgery and I thought for sure that my sister was going to come and see her but she didn't. My parents recently went shopping for the sister that ran away...they bought her some shoes and a dress for graduation!! She's going to graduate with my sister Mayra on May 23rd, they are both going to graduate from High School. I don't know but I kinda get mad at the fact that my parents went to buy her clothes when she talked so much bs and doesn't even communicate with them!! I know I have no right to tell my parents how I feel. But am I being a bad sister when I wouldn't do the same thing my parents did??! She wanted to live on her own but she has no job and is living with her boyfriends family which by the way are the worst people ever. They just want my sister to marry him so that she can get him legalized in the US. Since he is not a US citizen!! What should I do?? If anything....
threedrunkduck Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Whatever kids do parents always love them. So, what if your parents buy things for your sister and especially it's for her special moment i.e. graduation, you can not do anything about it. Your parents may be mad too but they it won't stop them from loving your sister. My guess is, when your parents want to show her that they love her, and therefor they hope she will come back. As a sister it is common that we disagree with our sisters choice, and I believe that we just want the best for her. I can see that you are against her more than any other siblings, and that's why she doesn't want to talk with you. However, your sister has her own right to choose what she wants to do with her life and now that she is going to be graduated it means she's not a kid anymore. You can not TELL her. Just show her how much you support her NOT how much you against her. That way you can get her trust again. And if your sister trusts you, she will listen to you.
alphamale Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 What should I do?? If anything.... there is nothing you can do in this situation
Author lizita14 Posted May 11, 2010 Author Posted May 11, 2010 I guess I'm selfish in the sense that what she talked about me....with her boyfriends family really hurt me! I would never expect someone from my family to make up such mean and hurtful things. Before she ran away if she needed something I would always get it for her and didn't even charge her. I guess she disappointed me in sense that I would never have thought she would do something like running away and talking BS about her family. I really in don't want to be mean but karma catches up to you one way or the other and all the lies she said are going to get her in the end....I will always love my sister regardless....
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