Cantcope Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Day 14.....2 weeks NC! YAY! Shouldn't this be it? Shouldn't I be healed? Or shall I say "cured"? I know it was a yukky relationship. I'm starting to see that it's not so much him that I miss as just having SOMEONE. But the a'hole made eye contact today and I almost crapped myself. How does he have me under such a spell. 2 weeks down....I can't wait to post my 1 month status!!!
ADF Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 It is your brain playing tricks on you. When we bond with someone emotionally, physical changes occur in our brians linger even after the relationships sours. It is the same reason we miss dead people. Logically, we know they no longer exist. Yet we miss them, be we have bonded with them.
sandiego Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 I 100% agree with ADF. Losing the companionship and the safety of the "known" i.e your ex, can really screw with your head....even if in your gut you KNEW they weren't right for you (I know from recent experience). The sense of loss, grief and fear of the unknown can be debilitating, but it gets easier. Give it more time, it WILL get easier! And with a clearer head, you'll have all the perspective you need to realize how better off you are with him! "I'm starting to see that it's not so much him that I miss as just having SOMEONE."......ain't that the truth! sandiego
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