WildWildWest Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Ok so I heard that the guy I been kinda seeing the past months has a girl that is interested in him or he is "doing" I heard this from my bro who heard it from another co worker (we all work together) the guy he heard it from isnt sure.. but he thinks that... him talkin to my bro in random convo cuz the guy who is friends with the guy I am seeing doesnt know anything bout me and him... so of course I get mad.. not even knowing if its true... he has told me several times that he isnt seeing anybody else but me... so of course I decide to question him bout it.. but I tell him I heard it from someone else not from anybody at the job, cuz I dont wanna get my bro or anybody else involved... so I tell him that I heard he has another gf, or he is doing someone else... he looked puzzled and was shocked that I guess had mentioned it... he said I must of heard wrong, that it wasnt him that person was talkin bout.. he said 'yeah im doing u" and I said "thats the problem, u aint been doin me, so maybe u r doin someone else" we havent spent time together in months... mainly my fault cuz of my busy schedule... so he after he leaves work he txts me and we discuss it further... but I then tell him he aint been doing me so he gotta be doin someone else... then he blows up! and tells me that I act like he gotta be ****in everyday, that I can believe what the hell I want that I am the last person he been with and he would tell me if he was doin someone else cuz he would tell me he wouldnt wanna deal with me anymore... idk what to believe now cuz usually when ppl get mad they are lying right? I mean we are not in a commited relationship but we have both told each other several times we aint seeing anybody else... Is he lying or telling the truth :/
stace79 Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 If you aren't in a committed relationship then he doesn't owe you anything... Not sure why you're even asking. If he was your bf then you have a right to know and sleeping with someone else would be cheating, but it sounds like he's just living his life. If you want a commitment, ask for it.
TaraMaiden Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Are you black? I'm serious, because I'm white, and I'm having difficulty understanding everything you're trying to convey. This is half text-speak, and half "Street-talk".... So I'm told..... I'm sorry, but you really need to try to write in ordinary English, because I'm really not sure I follow you. Is this a question of trust? If you don't trust him, have nothing to do with him. Trust is important to maintain in an established relationship. In one that hasn't even taken off, it seems to be a non-starter.
Author WildWildWest Posted May 11, 2010 Author Posted May 11, 2010 I'm white... not that it really matters... I didnt see anything wrong with how I wrote out the question... seemed pretty straight forward to me...
TaraMaiden Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Not everyone who reads this forum has English as a first language. there is a request in the Guidelines to use correct terminology. I take it you read them....? I'm just saying...... As a global community, it is important to recognize that not all participants are native speakers of English, nor are they all acquainted with colloquialisms popular in your particular area of the world. We expect that our community participants use language that not only reflects proper terminology, but that is in no way vulgar, profane, obscene, pornographic, demeaning, or pejorative to the subject being described or those contributing to the discussion. This is especially important to remember when dealing with sexual health issues.
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