Author ally12 Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 sorry to bump this thread but last night his gf was out of town for the weekend and we talked online and things got heated lets say and we had cyber sex i had the best time ever and the same goes for him he had fun but is this considered cheating on his gf? he says hes attracted to me in many ways but he doesnt want to hurt her because he loves her 2 much. It doesnt make sense to me if u truly love some1 u shudnt cheat on her. he says it would happen if he he was single he definitely would but he says he with her forever but honestly i do not see them together for any longer he isnt sure him self he talks about there future and to make me jealous which is mean but she isnt sure herself either because she told me the only reason why shes taking extra classes at school its for something fall back on if they break up so she can support her self with the extra certification and get an advancement in her company so she can make more money cause right now its only level entry , but bottom line is i have to wait because he doesn't want to screw it all up but he is so hes contradicting himself and he believes shes his soulmate so i really dont know it think they are just in a long term realtionship with no serious plans and he bull****ting me and trying to make me jealous
Mimolicious Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Do you hear yourself??? He says, he says, he says, he says, blah, blah, blah... You believe everything this freak says and he will continue to feed you BULL***** and you will continue to live in lalaland.
Author ally12 Posted June 15, 2010 Author Posted June 15, 2010 im joining his band im becoming one of his "girls"!!!!!!!!!!!!!
blueberries Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 i don't think you're listening to anyone's advice anyway, so i say why don't you just go ahead and f*** this man! if you think you love him and he loves you, why the heck not? you're young, you've got plenty of time to mess up and learn.
Rabican Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 sorry to bump this thread but last night his gf was out of town for the weekend and we talked online and things got heated lets say and we had cyber sex i had the best time ever and the same goes for him he had fun but is this considered cheating on his gf? he says hes attracted to me in many ways but he doesnt want to hurt her because he loves her 2 much. It doesnt make sense to me if u truly love some1 u shudnt cheat on her. he says it would happen if he he was single he definitely would but he says he with her forever but honestly i do not see them together for any longer he isnt sure him self he talks about there future and to make me jealous which is mean but she isnt sure herself either because she told me the only reason why shes taking extra classes at school its for something fall back on if they break up so she can support her self with the extra certification and get an advancement in her company so she can make more money cause right now its only level entry , but bottom line is i have to wait because he doesn't want to screw it all up but he is so hes contradicting himself and he believes shes his soulmate so i really dont know it think they are just in a long term realtionship with no serious plans and he bull****ting me and trying to make me jealous Ally, just go sleep with him. Seriously your going to do it anyway and in this case the burnt had teaches best. It should be fun for you, chances are the dude will know what he is doing in the sack, and how to set it up.
Mimolicious Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Ally- when you fisnish reading that book you're reading, come back and tell us the ending. You sound like a troll.
Author ally12 Posted June 15, 2010 Author Posted June 15, 2010 im not a troll im just in a situation that i have never been in before let alone some guy seemingly interested in me i do want this but his girlfriend is in the way. even thou he has a girlfriend its not stopping him at making passes at me. i understand u all are older and wiser and have these kinds of situations and experiences i haven't and im just young and stupid and i will eventually learn
impz Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 im not a troll im just in a situation that i have never been in before let alone some guy seemingly interested in me i do want this but his girlfriend is in the way. even thou he has a girlfriend its not stopping him at making passes at me. i understand u all are older and wiser and have these kinds of situations and experiences i haven't and im just young and stupid and i will eventually learn Have fun, I guess? If you are so excited over someone you know is obviously going to cheat on you, then you deserve whatever you will have. Enjoy yourself and let him F*** you silly and stupid. :bunny:
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 I hate how everyone here just asssumes EVERYONE is a troll!! Jeeze, can't we just get descent responses please? Some of us have actual questions but people wont answer because were "trolls". Man... True ... and then there are the trolls. This one better be a troll. If not, here is my 2 cents: Yeah, the guy is a sleazy loser. No doubt. He's not posting here; Ally is. Ally, are you a sleazy loser yourself? I know you are 21, but you are an adult human being. What kind of person purposefully sets about flirting, cyber-sexing, and participating in the destruction of another's relationship? And the other is your FRIEND? Gross. Go find your own dirty old loser man. There are thousands of them available for cute hawt skanky 21 year old grrrrls who like such things. Leave that one alone, don't be trashy. Or, you could just go back under your bridge and laugh with the other trolls.
Author ally12 Posted June 17, 2010 Author Posted June 17, 2010 but i cant leave him alone he is a wonderful friend and amazing guy i value are friendship i just have to wait until they r done so we can be together and he keeps telling me this and i have never respected it in the past but now i have came to terms thats its going to happen but not now and i told him this and since then and are last cybersexing session he is all over me and then on top of it my friend(his gf) has no frigging clue she wants me to join the band!!! , she is also one of those girls who keeps talking about her bf and how great he is to other people it makes me sick and jealous and there's some days i just want to tell her EVERYTHING about what is going on but i cant because he warned me he cut contact with me forever and it keeps getting worse for him because after he's done talking to me he is guilty for days and for the last ****ing time i'm not a troll i'm just very inexperience in sex and dont know all the ****ing terms or protocols of a relationship and yes u all think this is ****ing stupid because you are all older and wiser but it is ****ing real and my emotional feelings are different each day i'm just his friend/student one day then the next im having cybersex sessions with him , chatting online and sexting
Toki Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 Seems to me that you've met the Devil. Have fun in hell.
Ann_Igma Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 but i cant leave him alone he is a wonderful friend and amazing guy i value are friendship i just have to wait until they r done so we can be together and he keeps telling me this and i have never respected it in the past but now i have came to terms thats its going to happen but not now and i told him this and since then and are last cybersexing session he is all over me and then on top of it my friend(his gf) has no frigging clue she wants me to join the band!!! , she is also one of those girls who keeps talking about her bf and how great he is to other people it makes me sick and jealous and there's some days i just want to tell her EVERYTHING about what is going on but i cant because he warned me he cut contact with me forever and it keeps getting worse for him because after he's done talking to me he is guilty for days and for the last ****ing time i'm not a troll i'm just very inexperience in sex and dont know all the ****ing terms or protocols of a relationship and yes u all think this is ****ing stupid because you are all older and wiser but it is ****ing real and my emotional feelings are different each day i'm just his friend/student one day then the next im having cybersex sessions with him , chatting online and sexting He only SEEMS like a wonderful friend and an amazing guy because he is telling you exactly what you want to hear, in order to get what he wants from you. I know it seems great and fun and happy right now, but chances are that more than likely, you're not only going to badly badly hurt your 'friend' but you are also going to get badly hurt if you carry on with this man. I know it would hurt now to cut all ties with him, but I can promise you that it will likely hurt a LOT less than if you carry on with him. And tell your 'friend' what's going on - she deserves to know that she's wasting her young life with this man as well.
Trimmer Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 ...i'm just very inexperience in sex and dont know all the ****ing terms or protocols of a relationship... No, I'm going to call bullshxt on this one. You are old enough to know that a "protocol of a relationship" should not include cheating on his girlfriend. And you are also old enough to see that an "amazing guy" wouldn't threaten to dump his girlfriend the minute he finds her cheating, while doing the exact same thing himself. You need to grow up and own all of this; it's not because you're young and inexperienced. Stop hiding behind that. Your inexperience doesn't prevent you from taking personal responsibility for what's going on, and taking control of your own life.
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 but i cant leave him alone he is a wonderful friend and amazing guy i value are friendship Oh, give me a break. You "can't leave him alone"? When you see something pretty and shiny in a store that you don't have the money to buy, "can" you refrain from grabbing it and sticking it in your purse? "Amazing friend"? Haha. Well, I guess it figures that you would say that, given how much you honor and respect your own "friendship" with his gf. i just have to wait until they r done so we can be together Well then, why not "wait until they r done"? and he keeps telling me this and i have never respected it in the past but now i have came to terms thats its going to happen but not now and i told him this and since then and are last cybersexing session he is all over me and then on top of it my friend(his gf) has no frigging clue she wants me to join the band!!! , she is also one of those girls who keeps talking about her bf and how great he is to other people it makes me sick and jealous and there's some days i just want to tell her EVERYTHING about what is going on but i cant because he warned me he cut contact with me forever and it keeps getting worse for him because after he's done talking to me he is guilty for days Losers! and for the last ****ing time i'm not a troll i'm just very inexperience in sex and dont know all the ****ing terms or protocols of a relationship and yes u all think this is ****ing stupid because you are all older and wiser but it is ****ing real and my emotional feelings are different each day i'm just his friend/student one day then the next im having cybersex sessions with him , chatting online and sexting Um ... well, let me help you. "Protocols of a relationship" do NOT include cyber sex, sexting, chatting online, planning futures, etc. with your "friend's" old man (literally!). This kind of thing does not take age and experience to know, Ally. Lots of people mess where they shouldn't be messing, but your ridiculous protests about it being due to your "youth and inexperience" are just ... ridiculous. Does the concept of "friendship" actually mean anything to you? Here's an idea. Since you CAN stay away from him, and you just don't feel like it, how about showing some self respect and ethics. Evidently you and Rumplestillskin are "meant to be together," so just tell him you are not going to play nasty or even talk with him until he dumps his tired old girlfriend and is free to be yours ... all yours. Just for the record, I still suspect trollism, and that "Stealth Echo" and this character are closely related.
LSNoob Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 Ally you are obviously not attractive enough, very insecure and you are very very inferior to his gf. Seems like you can't get other guys, that's why you are so desperate over a man, old enough to be your father, who's having mid life crisis and trying to manipulate young girls. Trust me in couple years time he will be done with you, you are nothing to him but a sex toy, you don't have relationship with a vibrator, you don't get married to a vibrator. What makes you think you have future with him?? You are nothing more than a cheap vibrator to him ( LoL ok that's a bit harsh, lets say reasonable price vibrator). Look, he even proved it that every time spend time with you, he feels guilty. That means he loves his gf more, and you are just for entertainment, so his gf still means so much more than you. You are nothing to be compared to her. So leave those people alone, and before you do that, tell his gf what a douche bag she's dating. Seriously go get a life and date a guy at your age and respect your self. Don't be so cheap. Good luck <------------ YOU NEED A LOT OF THIS
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