ReadyforLove Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Well, it started back in the Myspace days. A mutual friend had this super attractive guy on her friend's list. I checked him out and eventually added him to my page. I was a lot younger at the time, and not as forward/direct so I never messaged him or left him a comment or anything. I actually saw him out and about once (no, I am NOT a stalker ) but I think he was with his Dad and I clammed up. Now, the same mutual friend has him added on her Facebook. I really want to add him and work up the nerve to send him a message saying how attractive I think he is. Is this even appropriate? I know it is very direct. I googled him (again, I am NOT a stalker!! lol) and he used to play for the NFL and has about 1K+ friends on facebook. I'm sure I don't even stand a chance! But hey, I'm not getting any younger here! I guess it's worth a shot? Men, how would you take it if a woman that you didn't even know hit on you via Facebook? Does this reek of desperation?
bayouboi Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Well, it started back in the Myspace days. A mutual friend had this super attractive guy on her friend's list. I checked him out and eventually added him to my page. I was a lot younger at the time, and not as forward/direct so I never messaged him or left him a comment or anything. I actually saw him out and about once (no, I am NOT a stalker ) but I think he was with his Dad and I clammed up. Now, the same mutual friend has him added on her Facebook. I really want to add him and work up the nerve to send him a message saying how attractive I think he is. Is this even appropriate? I know it is very direct. I googled him (again, I am NOT a stalker!! lol) and he used to play for the NFL and has about 1K+ friends on facebook. I'm sure I don't even stand a chance! But hey, I'm not getting any younger here! I guess it's worth a shot? Men, how would you take it if a woman that you didn't even know hit on you via Facebook? Does this reek of desperation? Your success will depend on how physically attractive you are since he doesn't know you. I had a lady add me through friend of a friend & I thought nothing of it until she popped out of nowhere & said we should date without me knowing the first thing about her. I didn't find her attractive & therefore didn't agree with her proposition.
Author ReadyforLove Posted May 11, 2010 Author Posted May 11, 2010 Ok, that makes sense of course sense all he has to go off of is the visual. I think I am pretty attractive but I don't know about NFL trophy gf attractive lol. I guess it's time to sex it up to get his attention.
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