student1990 Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Hi everyone. Basically i was wondering how i can go about keeping a girl interested if i cant see her for 4 months. I already know visiting is out of the question for now as we broke up a month ago and travelling to see her so soon is pushing it imo. In terms of current contact, She doesnt really text back but ive only spoke to her a few times via text but we're back on talking terms now, speaking naturally face to face, all relaxed. Think in the next few days were gonna hang out the 2 of us watch a film, catch up etc, again not pushing it too far. We're good times at the moment like i said,the bear i gave her is still on her pillow everyday which surprised me all things considered as ive boxed away all her stuff for now. My problem is this friday, shes going home then off to work a 9-5 work placement for a few months possibly, if she doesnt get it, that opens doors to go see her etc i was wondering how i will keep her interested without seeming needy and obsessive, made that mistake before you see. I would consider visiting her in london (IF she gets the placement) for a day or 2 if we were texting/phone calls regularly but were not at that stage yet, hopefully in the next few days things will loosen up. What could i do to keep her interested if i cant see her till september realistically? Mike
Eeyore79 Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 It doesn't sound like she's interested now, never mind in September. I mean, you broke up already and she doesn't text you back. If I were you, I'd let it go and forget about her till September, then maybe try again with her when she comes back if you're still interested.
Ihavenoidea Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 She is either interested or not. It doesn't sound like she is I would just move on or wait the months and try again. If she doesnt seem interested dont waste your time.
Author student1990 Posted May 11, 2010 Author Posted May 11, 2010 Fair enough guys. Just getting the mixed signals at the moment and just wondered what the court thought of it all. I'll see how the next few days pan out then leave it for a couple of months and get on with my stuff, got plently to do before uni in september, my placement etc too. Anyone else can pitch in too if they want
Author student1990 Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 Little update incase people find themselves in this situation. Went out last night as a group, she was there, made eye contact a few times but i knew she was looking over a lot more. Mutual friend said she was really happy i came over the over day to drop by and catch up so progress is being made. Baby steps. We Havent really spoken in 3 weeks so its bound to be awkward especially as shes shy anyway. Realised too that i sometimes make it hard for her to talk to me as im focusing on not making a deal outta her so she sees i dont need her but in turn makes it seem like im not acknowledging her presence and that i dont wish to talk. I'll post anything if anything happens soon.
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