Cens Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 So I'm three days into no contact. I'm buzzing with anxiety but actually resolute this time. I learned about this whole NC thing here after my divorce last year and it took a while, but it worked. The relationship I was in got so intense quickly and she was right there with me, but then suddenly backed off. Left me dangling in mid-air. I was getting so many mixed signals that by saturday night my head was spinning off the rails. I have to keep repeating my mantra "I can do better..." to keep from texting her :-) This place has been helpful to me. Just reading other people's stories and seeing other people being strong helps me be strong. Thanks for sharing all of them!
Tiredguy Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Glad to hear you're being resolute. No matter what, don't break NC. I read on here that a lot of people hope that NC will bring their ex back, but from my experience its not worth it. Twice NC brought my ex back, and both times it eventually led to more of the same, and she left me a third time. This time, I will not respond if she ever contacts me, at all, period. NC is for us, not them
Cantcope Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Congrats on 3 days!!! Next thing you know, it will be 10 and so on. Stay strong! = )
Author Cens Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 Well, she emailed and texted me last night, and broke down, before finding my strength again. So I guess I'm back to day 1, but more resolute then ever. I hadn't counted on her breaking the NC I guess
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