Author Woggle Posted May 16, 2010 Author Posted May 16, 2010 I'm not exactly a Beyonce fan, but I can't NOT think of my husband when I hear that "Halo" song she has. I can sing whatever the male version of that song is. I know I am hard on the opposite sex but I great women like my wife do exist even though I wish for the sake of my male friends that there more of them. I just feel like counterbalancing the misandry sometimes that I see on here.
Author Woggle Posted May 16, 2010 Author Posted May 16, 2010 I also don't think that volunteering at a shelter is the right idea. Many of these women probably have anger towards men and I actually do sympathize with it but I can't resist fighting back when I hear anti-male stuff and they don't need that kind of crap there. It is hard enough holding it in at work.
mem11363 Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 Woggle, I simply made the suggestion to try and get you to look at this in a more balanced way. I genuinely think it sucks when people are deceitful. I actually think both men and women can be very deceptive in their love lives. Frankly as much as I think adultery is wrong, I also think many times people lose desire for their partners (or never had it to start - even though they pretended) and lie to them for years on end to avoid telling them. I just hope that over time - your wife begins to gradually tilt your view of women in a positive direction. All your negative thoughts/emotions cannot be good for your quality of life..... I also don't think that volunteering at a shelter is the right idea. Many of these women probably have anger towards men and I actually do sympathize with it but I can't resist fighting back when I hear anti-male stuff and they don't need that kind of crap there. It is hard enough holding it in at work.
confuzzled68 Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 OWoman: wow! can I ask how long you two have been in a committed relationship? I would love to know. thanks. My H... moved mountains so we could be together, and thanks me every day that we are. He wakes me each morning with a kiss and a cup of tea, which cools as we make wild and passionate love. He lets me shower first so I get enough hot water, even if it means he has to shave with cold He dresses for me, asking my advice on his outfit, and complimenting me on mine. When he makes breakfast (we take it in turns) he always gives me something special, and he always clears up, even when it's my turn. If he's going in to the office that day, he'll part passionately, stopping to text me on the way in to remind me he loves me. He will email me as soon as he arrives to remind me again, and send me several more texts, emails or calls throughout the day, however busy he is. When he returns, he will be overjoyed to see me enjoying / wearing whatever treat he had delivered for me while he was away, and we will reconnect with wild passionate love before making dinner. If he is cooking, he will light candles, put on soft music, and infuse romance. If I am cooking, he will ply me with cocktails, help out with other chores and set the mood. After dinner we will take a stroll, arm in arm, to enjoy the crisp evening air, or sit in the garden and watch the sun set, or pop in to friends to say hi. Then we'll light a fire, lie in each other's arms on the couch in the lounge reading the day's papers and chatting, or watch the evening news in the TV room, or listen to music together while playing chess or scrabble. We'll go up to bed, make slow and gentle love, and read each other poetry and remind each other why we love them, before falling asleep in each other's arms.
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