USMCHokie Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 This question was asked in another forum and I thought I'd get the thoughts of those on LS... It's common knowledge that men are visual creatures and will easily be wow'ed by a woman with a nice body...perhaps even wow'ed enough to approach based only on physical appearance...or just wow'ed enough to gawk for a little while and then carry on about their day... On the other hand, women are generally known to be a little less visual and rely on more non-physical traits in determining suitable partners...but would women be similarly wow'ed if they see a guy with a decent body...? Even if just to gawk for a little bit...or perhaps to even consider approaching the guy...? Or is it more 'eh...' for women...?
Engadget Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Yes they do, although I'm not in good enough shape anymore to see it personally.
jennifer4 Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Yes we do! I do at least.. I'm sure it's a common thing. Just got home from the gym and was wow'd by a mans body! He then gave me his number sooo. we'll see. there's obviously more to a person than the body but that made an impression : )
phineas Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 women that knew me as a borderline fat bastard have paid more attention to me since i've dropped 40lbs & added at least an inch to my upper arms/ shoulders/ chest.
Ruby Slippers Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Of course. For me, a random hot-bodied stranger is eye candy and possible flirtation fun. If my boyfriend has a super sexy bod, I thoroughly enjoy and let him know it.
tigressA Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Yes, definitely. Though I find I'm more wowed once the clothes come off...
alphamale Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 ...but would women be similarly wow'ed if they see a guy with a decent body...? Even if just to gawk for a little bit...or perhaps to even consider approaching the guy...? Or is it more 'eh...' for women...? of course they would
AD1980 Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Of course they do the idea women arent as visual as Men is a myth...Have you ever seen videos of Women in Male strip clubs? They make man look tame
MrNate Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Of course they do the idea women arent as visual as Men is a myth...Have you ever seen videos of Women in Male strip clubs? They make man look tame LOL. Somehow, I can see that as being 100% true. I would not be surprised at all.
Author USMCHokie Posted May 11, 2010 Author Posted May 11, 2010 Of course they do the idea women arent as visual as Men is a myth...Have you ever seen videos of Women in Male strip clubs? They make man look tame Hahahah...well what about in more normal settings...like the beach, or a running trail on a hot day...?
SilentVoice Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Oh my word... Your back and the tattoo on your back is SEXCI!! Wait that wasn't the question... I mean : Yes
brainygirl Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 I don't get stop and stare wowed like guys seem to, but there is a definite body type I notice, although for me as soon as I get to know a person I stop "seeing" just the physical body. A hot body with built arms and a nice azz don't mean anything it the spirit inside is rude, mean and shallow.
Eeyore79 Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 I would gawk a little bit at a hot guy with a nice body, but it wouldn't supersede his other qualities. He would get extra brownie points for being hot though
Author USMCHokie Posted May 11, 2010 Author Posted May 11, 2010 I don't get stop and stare wowed like guys seem to, but there is a definite body type I notice, although for me as soon as I get to know a person I stop "seeing" just the physical body. A hot body with built arms and a nice azz don't mean anything it the spirit inside is rude, mean and shallow. I would gawk a little bit at a hot guy with a nice body, but it wouldn't supersede his other qualities. He would get extra brownie points for being hot though And I definitely agree that physique and even looks in general should never be the sole determinant in dating someone...but as a woman, would physique actually influence you to want to get to know someone and see their other qualities? You see it ALL THE TIME with men...a guy sees a random girl that he thinks has an attractive body...and based on her physique alone, he wants to get to know her better and see if she's someone he'd want to date...shallow, but true... Does it work the same way with women...? Is a guy's physique, or even any other physical trait, enough to push you to want to know a guy better...?
Author USMCHokie Posted May 11, 2010 Author Posted May 11, 2010 Oh my word... Your back and the tattoo on your back is SEXCI!! Wait that wasn't the question... I mean : Yes Heheh...ummm...thanks...?
brainygirl Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Its not physique for me at all. I mean, a guy who's way obese or way skin and bones is a turn off for me. I like a guy who's on the taller side with a decent amount of skin on his bones. I get more attracted to personality. A guy who can joke around and have an intelligent conversation is a heck of a lot sexier than a guy with huge shoulders and a six pack, at least to me.
SilentVoice Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Heheh...ummm...thanks...? Sorry didn't mean to put you on the spot or anything... just paying a compliment where it is due. But about your initial question.Don't get me wrong who doesn't like admiring someone who takes care of themselves. But that can only hold my interest for so long. I see many guys of different shapes and sizes.. some with great bods some with not so much but I am more interested in a way a guy carries his self. But a hot body(depends what is hot to that women) will wow a girl anytime. Eye candy at best ... lol
Author USMCHokie Posted May 11, 2010 Author Posted May 11, 2010 Sorry didn't mean to put you on the spot or anything... just paying a compliment where it is due. But about your initial question.Don't get me wrong who doesn't like admiring someone who takes care of themselves. But that can only hold my interest for so long. I see many guys of different shapes and sizes.. some with great bods some with not so much but I am more interested in a way a guy carries his self. But a hot body(depends what is hot to that women) will wow a girl anytime. Eye candy at best ... lol Heheh, I shouldn't have had that question mark there at the end...definitely changed the tone of my reaction in a way I didn't intend...I honestly appreciate it though... Right, and it goes the same way for guys too...well, I'm sure some guys are ok being with someone solely based on physical attraction...but like you said, the physical qualities only go so far...but I guess my question is, how much does physique influence whether you actually want to get to know a guy...? Is it just eye candy and move along...? Or does it pique an initial interest in your mind...? I've noticed on LS that women don't really even consider it at all and just consider it as a "side bonus"...whereas guys will not hesitate to approach a girl just because of her physique... And does it affect how friendly you'd be with a guy...? Even if it's just smiling and saying hi as you pass by them...? Would you be more open to simple social interaction with a more aesthetically pleasing figure...? I can certainly speak for the guys when I say that we're much more willing to smile and say hi to a woman with a more attractive physique...
Ruby Slippers Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Oh my word... Your back and the tattoo on your back is SEXCI!! Wait that wasn't the question... I mean : Yes Woooooah. This comment inspired me to check out your profile. I had no idea we had such an iron man on LS.
Ruby Slippers Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 but I guess my question is, how much does physique influence whether you actually want to get to know a guy...? Is it just eye candy and move along...? Or does it pique an initial interest in your mind...? I've noticed on LS that women don't really even consider it at all and just consider it as a "side bonus"...whereas guys will not hesitate to approach a girl just because of her physique... Yeah, my interest is definitely piqued by a hot bod. But I will also make some assumptions in my mind, like: "It'll be hard for him to be faithful". When you're with a very strong, fit, good-looking man, the whole world pays him respect. It's pretty crazy. But then we are animals. And does it affect how friendly you'd be with a guy...? Even if it's just smiling and saying hi as you pass by them...? Would you be more open to simple social interaction with a more aesthetically pleasing figure...? I can certainly speak for the guys when I say that we're much more willing to smile and say hi to a woman with a more attractive physique... Slightly. I am definitely more likely to just no-holds-barred flirt with, shoot the bedroom eyes at, or smile devilishly and say "hellooooo" to a really hot guy. The assumption is that he gets it all the time, so he's expecting it and will receive the attention warmly. And they usually do. It's funny, but really hot guys seem much more receptive to flirting than average or nerdy guys, in my experience. It's like the average and nerdy guys can't believe you're serious and are skeptical, but the hot guy is not surprised.
Engadget Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Yeah, my interest is definitely piqued by a hot bod. But I will also make some assumptions in my mind, like: "It'll be hard for him to be faithful". When you're with a very strong, fit, good-looking man, the whole world pays him respect. It's pretty crazy. But then we are animals. Slightly. I am definitely more likely to just no-holds-barred flirt with, shoot the bedroom eyes at, or smile devilishly and say "hellooooo" to a really hot guy. The assumption is that he gets it all the time, so he's expecting it and will receive the attention warmly. And they usually do. It's funny, but really hot guys seem much more receptive to flirting than average or nerdy guys, in my experience. It's like the average and nerdy guys can't believe you're serious and are skeptical, but the hot guy is not surprised. I love flirting and do it often, but I've never taken compliments well. I'm a strange combination of cocky and humble. Whether it's "You're hot" or "You're really smart" it's weird to take. Of course I'll usually respond to a woman who's attracted to me with the cocky facade, which I use very well. I recently had a girl tell me I'm the cockiest guy she's ever met, but deep down I'm really not. I wear two hats.
Author USMCHokie Posted May 11, 2010 Author Posted May 11, 2010 Woooooah. This comment inspired me to check out your profile. I had no idea we had such an iron man on LS. Awww shucks...thanks... Yeah, my interest is definitely piqued by a hot bod. But I will also make some assumptions in my mind, like: "It'll be hard for him to be faithful". When you're with a very strong, fit, good-looking man, the whole world pays him respect. It's pretty crazy. But then we are animals. I noted in the benefits of fitness thread that physique can certainly be seen as a negative thing...as shown by this statement... Do women get insecure, uncomfortable, or just intimidated (for lack of better terms...) by the "hot bod"...? Preconceived ideas that they are players or cheaters or narcissistic douchenuggets that must be avoided at all costs...? It's funny, but really hot guys seem much more receptive to flirting than average or nerdy guys, in my experience. It's like the average and nerdy guys can't believe you're serious and are skeptical, but the hot guy is not surprised. This is very true...the average/nerdy guys just don't get attention like that, so they are tempered to believe that they must not be deserving of it or that any attention they do get isn't sincere...so they just brush it off like you were joking... I know this because I was/am very much like that...I've gotten better about accepting compliments, but for a long time, I assumed that every compliment was just someone being nice to me because I felt like I didn't have any redeeming qualities to compliment...
SilentVoice Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 I noted in the benefits of fitness thread that physique can certainly be seen as a negative thing...as shown by this statement... Do women get insecure, uncomfortable, or just intimidated (for lack of better terms...) by the "hot bod"...? Preconceived ideas that they are players or cheaters or narcissistic douchenuggets that must be avoided at all costs...? No I don't think it can be seen as a negative thing. Unless someone is insecure about themselves. Same goes for if the girl is intimidated the other's looks or think that because he is hot that he is going to cheat. That mean she is insecure.
Ariadne Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 I sure have been wowed by men's bodies. Of course. Usually I like the guy first, and then the body blows me away and not the other way around. I see shapely guys walking around and for me they are like statues.
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