sole Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 About my Wife. She's hinted at it, and I know she had a crazy past.. but this is too much. I don't know quite how to deal with it. It's a question of morals, which isn't something I'm big on in the first place (one of those screw-conventions types) but this was heartless. Her excuse for it just makes it worse. I can't even describe what happened. People were really hurt and I'm .. disgusted. I don't think she gets it though? She's not going to understand how this one thing just put a nail in the coffin of our already dying marriage. I try to think that it was a different time and the person she was with was the real horror. But it's just not that simple. And.. I just don't think she feels bad about it. She's not the kind of nuts I thought I married. I love a certain kind of crazy. The artistic creative type. Which she's got. But not this.. There's a lot of things going on, that are impossible to summarize, but lets just say we've been on and off the rocks for a while now. Me with my ****ty temper (egged on from a bratty wife who thinks cooking a good dinner is enough when everything else is failing). I'm actually a very laid back person when I'm not under insane amounts of stress.. And her with her insecurities, jealousy and dishonesty. The better I did in life the more insecure she got. Until I just cut the rope and told her to start seeing other people. It's all about the 'kink' right now, but I don't think she gets it.. I'm trying to lead her away, as I think she might get violent if I'm the one that does the final cut.. Has anyone ever been through anything close to this and successfully cut it off? I don't expect to come out unscathed but any experiences.. advice.. feeling completely lost
scatterd Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 I would just tell her you are not happy and want out you want it so you be the one to do it.Good luck
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