Ninobasil Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 (edited) I am in LDR. We are in different universities. I miss her alot. Before I use to call her everyday and she doesn't return my calls. And it gave me great concern that I doubted her love for me. Several time I have ask her, how she feel about the development of this relationship. She always avoid to answer the question. She always refuse me visiting her in school. For the past few weeks, I have decided to call her ones a week because she always fail to return my calls. Is this relationship doing to work out? Should I start calling her everyday? I love her so much. Pls reply. Edited May 10, 2010 by Ninobasil
madjac74 Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Well I hate to be a downer for any relationship but this doesnt sound too promising. First of all does she know she is in an LDR? Thats something you guys should have discussed before you parted ways and something you still can discuss. It seems like you are being treated like an "ex" actually. How long have you guys been together? Usually if you are both in love and far apart you cant wait to hear from them, respond to their text, get an email, visit them. She doesnt sound to concerned about any of this. Next time she actually returns your call let her know how you feel and what she wants.
BettyBoop Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Sorry but I don't think she loves you. If she avoids discussing your relationship status it sounds as if she is just strining you along until she's found a new boyfriend at her uni. The fact that she will not allow you to come visit makes it sound very much like she is trying to show off her relationship status as "single gal" there. I bet none of her friends there, male or female, knows of your existence... Not to be like that but it sounds like you're an ex who is still crazy about her and that it is one-sided. I'd say you go visit her and lay the cards on the table. Ask her if you're together or not and if you are, well, then she'd better start explaining why she doesn't give you that impression. Or simply realize you'd probably waste your gas money on that trip and find someone who does want you to call them and returns your calls. Out of curiosity - when you *do* talk, does she seem affectionate? Interested? Says she loves you?
Author Ninobasil Posted May 14, 2010 Author Posted May 14, 2010 Affection: No. Interesting: just resently. She doesn't say she loves me on phone.
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