amythan Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Hey, It seems that reading signals is not my specialty. There is this guy who contact me almost everyday, call me sweet names, teases me and all the "classic signs". We do not see often because we do not live in the same place but last time we did, he invited me for dinner and we had a blast. We were laughing and smiling all the time and the day after he sent me an email saying that he had almost too much fun and he wanted to repeat it. I really like the guy but if he is not interested i do not want to spend more time chatting as it would be a waste of time without to mention the possibility to get more attached to him. The problem is, despite all these signals it seems that he is not coming any time soon. So my question is, how can i know if he is really interested and come here is just difficult at the present time or if he is just enlighten his working hours ? I do not want to come desperate or make a fool of myself .. just stop wondering ! Thank you all for your advise !
SomewhatExperienced Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 I'd say do one or both of these things. Ask him out on a specified date. And make sure he knows it's a date. I always find it's tough when you're not sure if you're just hanging out, or if you're going on a date. If you make it explicit then you both know what you're trying to do. The other thing is next time you get together, break the physical boundary barrier and let him do it. Touch his arm, brush up against him etc.. He'll know you're really interested and hopefully reciprocate.
Author amythan Posted May 10, 2010 Author Posted May 10, 2010 (edited) Well last time we saw each other he was touching my arm and taking me close to him but i was so scared of misunderstand everything (we work together so i do not want to misbehave) that i did nothing !!! I do not know how he behaves with other girls, perhaps he is just like that ... He is asking me about where are you going to bring me for dinner next time, i want to see your sexy sandals .. send me a picture with your new dress ... But i do not know why i keep thinking that if he was REALLY interested he would do something ... Also the fact that he is not contacting me during the w/e bothers me but perhaps he thinks i do not want either ... This is very confusing ! I didn't feel this way from my teens Edited May 10, 2010 by amythan
Author amythan Posted May 11, 2010 Author Posted May 11, 2010 OMG This is driving me nuts ! It is not because i like him - and i do - it is the confusion !!! He is doing it, again and again .. I was planning to not contact him but after 30 min at work he contacted me. Always the same thing ... i like to picture you all happy, u are cute and blah blah He said if you go out with me with this dress i spend next week in your town, i said yeeeeesssss ! and i guess this is not going to happen. Can he just shut up and stop confusing me ??? I start to think he likes me but he has a gf or something like that ....
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