jj33 Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Well its been years since it ended and I thought noone knew. Apparently I was wrong. I run into xMM some time. Only communicate with him when I must and yet (and yet) when there was concern about something involving me and work, did anyone contact me? No they did not. They contacted my "friend". He had NO idea what they were asking about so of course he then had to ask me.... Its been so long since it ended and so long since I have spoken to him, and so long since anything, it really does drive home that people must have known. So word to the wise. You think nobody knows. They know. Ay yi yi. Its the gift that keeps on giving!
JustJoe Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 , I'm always amused by those AP's who say that nobody knows except them. Somebody else, ALWAYS , knows. Sometimes it is even a stranger. In my case I was with my MW and a soldier from another company saw me and mentioned it to a soldier in my company. I did not know the first soldier, but apparently he knew me and that I wasn't married. This is a very real problem. We usually can make a guess about the people we know, but how about those who know us, but we've never met? There are probably hundreds of people , whom I 've trained , who know who I am, but whom I've never met. The odds of only one couple being aware of what's happening are ludicrously small.
jwi71 Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 I'm sorry. I know its a two fold slap. First, they knew of the A (in all likelihood) and Two, they go to HIM and not YOU. You're a sharp woman JJ...you know why they went to him first...(hint: he planned it from day one) Head up, back straight and just a hint of "eff you" in the eyes...
Author jj33 Posted May 10, 2010 Author Posted May 10, 2010 Thanks guys. Joe I exaggerate. I didnt think noone knew, I just didnt think anyone thought about it anymore as its been eons and eons since it was anything. JW I may look sharp but really I only look like someone who plays a sharp character on TV. I didnt get the hint.... What did he plan...
fooled once Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 I am sorry jj ((hug)) How did you find out everyone knows?
Author jj33 Posted May 10, 2010 Author Posted May 10, 2010 Thanks Fooled. I dont know for sure but there is no reason for anyone to go to him with anything concerning me unless its a project we are working on together and this was not. Its like when someone says can you talk to your partner for me about this? For whatever reaason they think that he has influence over or access to me. Little do they know he is the last person I want in my business.
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