myhearthurtsbadly Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Hey everyone, well got over my ex and have moved back into the game as it were. I met a girl on Friday in a club and we got talking and kissed a few times. She texted me after the club and said to text her tommorow to arrange dinner. We spoke via facebook and i told her where i was taking her and she seemed quite excited, said she was looking at the website of the restaurant and stuff. Fast forward to today and i texted her saying "hey hun, 7 o clock good for you?" She replied saying "Yeah that sounds good to me. Cya tonight". Then about an hour ago i got a text saying "Hey im really sorry but my mums just rung me and my grandad is really ill and has gone into hospital about half an hour ago so i'm going to go back home tonight to see him. So sorry to let u down xx" Does this sound like a reallly low way to say actually i dont want to come on a date with you or does it sound truthful? Im not gonna say what i think because i wanted unbias and reactive opinions. Cheers
Rorschach Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Am I the only one who thinks calling her hun before the first date even is kinda creepy? That said I'm a big fan of giving people the benefit of a doubt, but it always sounds a bit fishy, might be too early to call it one way or the other.
homersheineken Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Am I the only one who thinks calling her hun before the first date even is kinda creepy? That's the first thing that popped out to me
phineas Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 I think he's english. Their a lot more casual over there. I'd wait a few days. And see if she contacts you. Give it a week in case the old codger crapped out.
Lakeside_runner Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 I've always been amazed that every girl's grandad is like a cat - dies 7 times... Wait and see if she gets back to you and arranges something new.
Author myhearthurtsbadly Posted May 11, 2010 Author Posted May 11, 2010 I think he's english. Their a lot more casual over there. I'd wait a few days. And see if she contacts you. Give it a week in case the old codger crapped out. Yeh well picked up on i am english. Hun is a pretty normal way to address a girl here. I lol'ed pretty hard at your last bit mate! She seemed very into me which is why i think she might be telling the truth. Any other opinions?
D-Lish Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 The only way to know for sure is by waiting to hear from her. Do I think the sick grandfather thing is an excuse? It's likely. The ball is in her court- she was the one that cancelled. It's up to her to contact you and re-schedule. Don't reach out to her again- she's got your number, she knows how to get in touch. If she's interested, she will contact you to arrange another date.
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