wjg23g Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 over a few months, i became very close w/ this girl who had a LD BF. eventually, she started to come on to me & things progressed to just shy of intimacy (lots of kissing, i stayed over a couple weekends, she said wasn't ready for sex yet). we talked about her breaking up with the BF, and I asked her to do so but told her to take her time. after doing this for a few weeks, she called it off, and then ended our friendship soon after. We haven't spoken in a month. She's now back w/ BF (I guess technically never left), going to be living with him for a month before she does some traveling. so, i guess that would count as at least emotional infidelity, technically cheating. do you think she'll ever get over it & contact me again? We were good friends before we got involved, that's probably not a possibility anymore, but not friends at all?
phineas Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Why would you want to be friends with someone that used you for psyical intimasy while her BF was away? Seriously, she's a cheater.
Bryanp Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 I agree with the above poster. The one to feel sorry for is her boyfriend. She clearly showed no respect for him or their relationship. If they cheat with you then they will cheat on you. You don't realize it but you are really lucky. It is too bad that you cannot tell the boyfriend what type of person she is.
stace79 Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Agreed with the above. Not only was she cheating on her boyfriend and using you for emotional support, but she clearly didn't care much about your friendship in the first place. You don't need someone like that as your friend! You deserve better.
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