HBJen Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Hey Everyone, I thought I would give a little update here, as I spent some time in these forums looking for hope and guidance when the love of my life and I broke up. It was easily the hardest time of my life, but - I can say that things CAN work out, even when everything and everyone around you says that it cant! My fiance and I had broken up (if you would like to get the history I am sure you can find some of the posts on here under this nickname) and I was really confused as to why it all happened, we were in love and I knew with every inch of me that he was my soulmate. Even when people told me that I should just give up and move on, I knew that I just couldnt let go. Well, its been 6 months or so since I posted on here, and in 36 sleeps from today, we will be married!!!!! He realized what he was missing, and he came back to me!!! Since that day, everything has been perfect! I am not saying we havent faught or argued or gotten on eachothers nerves - its just that we have learned that we are different, and we have accepted that we will have bad days - but those bad days do not reflect on our relationship, they are just bad days. There is hope out there, the happy ending can happen. If you truly feel and know that its right, then hold on and dont let go. Your dreams are only dreams until they become reality. xo Jennie
Tim The Enchanter Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Fantastic news, I wish you many years of happiness.
Stephie Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 That has to be the best feeling in the world I too hope for that one day, but the pain I'm feeling now seems like forever. I just lost the love of my life due to my insecurities and his issues of running. We were together almost 2 yrs and from the day we met it was love an awesome feeling. I too moved somewhere for him and had no friends and diff finding a job. He says he still loves me and was fighting like hell to stay away but realized he couldn't make me happy we were just to different. I am trying everyday to move on and feel normal again but I can't fight that feeling that we are so meant to be. He left at the end of March and we talked over phone, email, text almost everyday until I sent him an email and told him I know hes trying to move on but that heartbreak hes feeling is me. We then got into a fight and he told me not to contact him anymore so I am going to respect his wishes, I told him goodbye Friday. Now the ball is in his court and I hope and pray he is going to realize whats so meant to be. I wish you all the best!
Author HBJen Posted May 11, 2010 Author Posted May 11, 2010 Tim: Thank you, I know that no matter what, it will be happiness, because we are together! Stephie: Honestly, I really feel your pain...reading what you wrote, really brought me back to where I was 6 months ago. Its going to hurt, and continue to hurt, until one day it either works out or you realize yourself it isnt right. Give him the space (hardest thing in the world, I know) - but that is exactly what I did. I didnt call, email, bother him...nothing. And then all of a sudden he started to appear on MSN (knowing I was on there, since he only has 2 people on his MSN, me and his mom - which he lived with) - and then he started staying around all the time....and eventually he just came through. Keep your head up, focus on getting through each day - and no matter what, do what feels right inside you and do not let other people tell you how to think, feel, respond. Just be you, and then you will find your way. best of luck xo Jennie
supersub Posted May 11, 2010 Posted May 11, 2010 Hey Everyone, I thought I would give a little update here, as I spent some time in these forums looking for hope and guidance when the love of my life and I broke up. It was easily the hardest time of my life, but - I can say that things CAN work out, even when everything and everyone around you says that it cant! My fiance and I had broken up (if you would like to get the history I am sure you can find some of the posts on here under this nickname) and I was really confused as to why it all happened, we were in love and I knew with every inch of me that he was my soulmate. Even when people told me that I should just give up and move on, I knew that I just couldnt let go. Well, its been 6 months or so since I posted on here, and in 36 sleeps from today, we will be married!!!!! He realized what he was missing, and he came back to me!!! Since that day, everything has been perfect! I am not saying we havent faught or argued or gotten on eachothers nerves - its just that we have learned that we are different, and we have accepted that we will have bad days - but those bad days do not reflect on our relationship, they are just bad days. There is hope out there, the happy ending can happen. If you truly feel and know that its right, then hold on and dont let go. Your dreams are only dreams until they become reality. xo Jennie Hi Jen, Congratulations. I know that 6 months must have been very hard on you but usually if something is too easy then it wouldn't be worth it, would it? I wish you and your partner many years of happiness. This is great news! Supersub
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