Ihavenoidea Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 So I went out on a first date and we had what I thought was a really good time. Whole date ended up lasting about 12 hours. We flirted and joked and laughed and by the end of the date she was holding my arm when we walked and snuggled up against me on the metro. Finally got her home and she kind of lingered and we made some awkward conversation and she wasnt moving so I sucked it up and went in for the kiss. We kissed some more and we kind of teased eachother a little. The following day I sent a couple texts and she replied but I didnt get a whole lot of response so I stopped and in the evening I called her and she didnt answer but texted me that she was out to dinner with her parents and asked if she could talk to me in a bit. Well, I havent heard from her since. My questions: What do you think she is thinking? Does she like me or....? Should I wait for her to contact me or should I try calling again? I was thinking about waiting a day and trying to contact her, I wonder what women think about this? What do you think she expects from me? The only reason I'm asking is because this is where I usually screw things up.
LittleMissWonder Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 What do you think she is thinking? She is probably still in the process of deciding what to think. There is no way for us forum readers to tell what she is thinking based on this post alone. Does she like me or....? Possibly. She did let you kiss her. Was the kiss good? Did she leave abruptly afterward? What happened after the kiss? Should I wait for her to contact me or should I try calling again? WAIT. You already called and texted her. The ball is in her court. Don't be too pushy. I was thinking about waiting a day and trying to contact her, I wonder what women think about this? It works. It keeps her thinking about you and wondering about you. What do you think she expects from me? I have no clue! Why does it matter? Give her the unexpected a little.
Author Ihavenoidea Posted May 10, 2010 Author Posted May 10, 2010 She probably is deciding, I was just curious to what most women feel after a decent date and a good night kiss. I thought the kiss was good. I was just going to make it quick and she pulled me in and we kissed longer, she called me a "tease" and she bit my lip a couple times. Afterwards, she smiled, I told her goodnight again and gave her another kick kiss. She walked inside I got in my car and left. I think I am going to wait I just dont want her thinking that I am not interested because I'm not chasing her. Youre right I think in the past I have been too pushy. I will wait until tomorrow to contact her if she hasnt contacted me today and asked for her out again and see what her response is. Hows that sound?
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