bananarama1 Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 so my bf is spending so much damn time in his sisters house. anyway his sister lives w/ another girl named Eva who is her close friend, and my bf's close friend too or so he claims. the other night i caught his cousin online and he said "i went to his house but his mom told me he went to eat out w/ a girl" ..that just made me rage so much im grinding my teeth now just thinking about it. hes been gone every night without fail and comes home about 11pm or 1am. by teh time he comes home he doesnt have much time to talk to me or energy cause hes so tired hes about to sleep. i feel so super under appreciated. and furious. sad thing is he is coming over to see me in 3-4 weeks. ir eally want to break up with him but i dont know, since we cant refund the plane ticket w/c cost about 1k plus. i dont know but i dont think im a malicious person, he just spends so much time there to be honest. its like, for a couple of months now. eva just broke up w/ her husband (shes only 21) and he told me "shes crazy about some guy at work" and i can tell he was a lil bit hurt about it. its not the first time we had a fight because of that girl. i just feel he thinks hes so old for her (hes only 29) so he doesnt go for her, when we were first starting out he didnt really make a go for me either..i think he is the type whos so shy he wouldnt make the first move. i really dont know what to do anymore as i already bought a ticket to meet too. i cant refund it anymore. initially i thought things were gonna get better but im just plain as sick of it and i dotn feel anything anymore.
Author bananarama1 Posted May 10, 2010 Author Posted May 10, 2010 when eva had a fight w/ her ex husband last year (before they seperated), my bf was the first one she texted. he came to her house and stuff and when we talked about it he was very emotional about it. and it just feels like..wrong or soemthing. i have this habit of not trusting my gut feelings even though it hurts a lot inside. i think my bf really likes her, and i dont even know why they are not together, except that she might like him as a brother and he doesnt want to ruin that, or that it feels weird cause shes younger (only 8 years or less). granted there are "nice guys" like him, but i think i have had enough. hes been gone every night without fail for almost 2 mos, spending every waking moment in that house. i dont care anymore. its just the plane ticket..wish we didnt get it. orbitz cannot refund.
D-Lish Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 What's done is done- what's worse, not having a refund, or spending a week with someone that really wants to be with someone else? Forget about the money. Why would either of you take a trip when it's obviously over between the two of you? Why wouldn't you trust your gut- you should trust it. He may not be cheating- but he's obviously in love with someone else.
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