tami-chan Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 ...lately I've actually been wondering how I'd do in the Asian community... Ahm...why? as I favor to Asian women? :rolleyes:! I know you don't like me very much, tami...so we'll just leave it at that...Correction: I detest "who" or should I say, "how" you are on LS. Let me remind you of what you said about Asian women who date 'white" guys" and the "white" guys who date them. ...... generally these guys are on the lower end of the dating spectrum as far as attractiveness...so they'll go with what they can get...usually the Asian girls on the similar low end of the dating spectrum... Feel free to deny it.
AngryTroll Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Your look is ...(oh god, I hate this word)---"exotic". Are you of mixed heritage? If she left the tanning alone, she'll look Asian again. I see nothing "exotic" about her looks. No offense, OP
Author jtxo1019 Posted May 10, 2010 Author Posted May 10, 2010 Is that you on the avatar? I do not think you will have problems attracting or dating "western" guys. You might have a problem attracting "Asian" guys. Your look is ...(oh god, I hate this word)---"exotic". Are you of mixed heritage? Anyway, you should talk to USMCHOKIE, he is kind of a male version of yourself-he is Asian but does not really "know" many Asians, and he only likes Caucasian girls. Maybe you and he can share trade secrets on how to attract and DATE "white" people. You should know though, to be fair, that he thinks very low of you. well i dont really care what he thinkk and yes that avatar is me
USMCHokie Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Ahm...why? as I favor to Asian women? :rolleyes:! No, as [a] favor to myself. Feel free to deny it. I have no reason to deny what I see with mine own two eyes.
BubbleFreak Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 well i dont really care what he thinkk and yes that avatar is me Kudos to you for putting your real pic as your avatar. I think I'm hot but I don't want people in RL to recognise me here on LS. Anonymous ftw.
witabix Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 This has been done many times. I think its just a case of what you find attractive. You don't have to possess the qualities you are looking for, hence men do not generally have long hair and breasts. I would warn you against shallowness based on ethnicity, as I would warn anyone against the shallowness of judging people by what they look like.
Green Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 I've dated asian women in the past and I really didn't see it as an issue. When it didn't work out it had nothing to do with them being asian. My friend is one of the whitest guys I know. He is also considered very good looking and when he was single he refused to date white women. He has been in a serious relationship with an asian girl for over a year now
BubbleFreak Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 (edited) I would warn you against shallowness based on ethnicity, as I would warn anyone against the shallowness of judging people by what they look like. You can't escape it, people will judge you by what you look like, whether it works in your favour or not. It's just human nature. Edited May 10, 2010 by BubbleFreak oops
USMCHokie Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 You can't escape it, people will judge you by what you look like, whether it works in your favour or not. It's just human nature. And this is what I try to say every time one of these threads pops up...I don't agree with it, but it happens...we don't live in an ideal world free of racial tensions...I know it's 2010, and it's a lot better than it once was, but these tensions will still be alive and well in 2030...as long as there are races, there will be racism...it is what it is...
witabix Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 You can't escape it, people will judge you by what you look like, whether it works in your favour or not. It's just human nature. Yep, but its a flawed system, well except that evolution made it that way, so I suppose I am railing against nature. But I do think that the modern media has overly influenced people to judge on the exterior too much. I have not seen an advert that says 'Use <product> you will be smarter, have a higher sperm count, have healthier children and generally be a well balanced individual. It is all surface driven. Ending up in a surreal parody of the evolutionary drives to find a particular kind of mate.
tami-chan Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 If she left the tanning alone, she'll look Asian again. I see nothing "exotic" about her looks. No offense, OP If she is Southeast Asian, that's probably not an artificial tan. Many southeast Asians are dark. Maybe YOU do not see anything "exotic" about her looks but many westerners do-long, very dark straight hair, dark skin, petite bod-it's a stereotype, of course.
Zed Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 If she is Southeast Asian, that's probably not an artificial tan. Many southeast Asians are dark. Maybe YOU do not see anything "exotic" about her looks but many westerners do-long, very dark straight hair, dark skin, petite bod-it's a stereotype, of course. Agree. I used to live around a very large Cambodian population and her look is not unusual at all. Many were very attractive and so a lot of White guys would find her look exotic. I know a few blasians who have a similar look as well, and White and Black guys show interest. Asian guys not so much. To the topic of the thread, this topic has been done to death, but your target group already has a proprietary interest in Asian women no matter if they are Eurasian, Mixed, Southeast, Northeast, etc. You will have lots of guys who are interested and therefore will have many to choose from. Northeast Asian guys—I am not sure—they seem to prefer women who are fairer, but Vietnamese, Cambodians, Filipinos, Pacific Islanders, are more accepting of darker skin. Asian guys who prefer White girls of course are going to have to skate uphill more so than Asian women.
Author jtxo1019 Posted May 10, 2010 Author Posted May 10, 2010 Agree. I used to live around a very large Cambodian population and her look is not unusual at all. Many were very attractive and so a lot of White guys would find her look exotic. I know a few blasians who have a similar look as well, and White and Black guys show interest. Asian guys not so much. i am mixed viet and flippp
Author jtxo1019 Posted May 10, 2010 Author Posted May 10, 2010 I've dated asian women in the past and I really didn't see it as an issue. When it didn't work out it had nothing to do with them being asian. My friend is one of the whitest guys I know. He is also considered very good looking and when he was single he refused to date white women. He has been in a serious relationship with an asian girl for over a year now thankk you
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