DudeMan27 Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 I didn't want to post this because I just wanted to drop it but I am stuck at home and thinking, so was looking for others opinions. My ex and I have been broken up a year now. We are on good terms. I didnt take the relationship as seriously as I should, didnt put forth the time I should and sometimes didn't treat her the way she deserved. I am to blame and have accepted that. A couple months ago I decided I wouldnt text her anymore. I realized the only time we talk is if I initiate contact. Well a few weeks after I decided that, she text me out of nowhere saying she was just checking in, that we havnet talked in a while. So we text back and forth that night. A week later my computer was sending out spam to my friends email. She responded just joking if I sent her porn. Well for some reason in the response I said "maybe we can talk later this week" and she said she's love to catch up. We had about a 1 hour phone call and she ended with "good to catch up, seriously lets not let it go so long next time' 2 weeks past and we had no contact and I get another text saying "havent talked in a while, just checking in" I kept it short and said "Good to hear from ya" she ended with "Keep in touch! Talk to you soon" I didnt respond. Now i'll preface by saying her parents have a cookout once a month in the summer where family and neighbors come over and play volleyball. Well a week after those texts I get an email about it. Her dad sent out an email announcing the first volleyball picnic. Well she responded to her dad, and added my email to the list. I thought this was very strange. I didnt say aything to her for over a week. But I had to somehwo see if it was an accident or what. I sent a joking text about losing a golf bet and having to caddy someone. She used to be a caddy in college. Her first text back was "haha...are you guys comming to volleyball" She also added my best friend and his wife on the emails. I just told her I hadnt talked to them. And we havnet talked since. I know better than to read anything into it. But i just thought it was strange. Even tho we are friends, and talk occasionally it just seemed funny that 2 weeks after we tlak on the phone I get a "havent talked in a while' text. And she invites me to her parents house where all her family is going to be. We had lunch 6 months ago, it would be awkward just to see her again, let alone be around her entire family. I just dont know what to say about it. I seriously doubt I will go, but I just dont know what to make of it.
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