s22n33 Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 I was dating or hanging out with a guy for a solid two months, everything was really good, no fighting, he always was texting me throughout the day to see how I was. The last time we hung out was about a month ago he kissed me goodbye everything was good. Then I realized for a few days he was being weird. I asked him what was up he said he wanted space and was feeling strapped down like he was in a relationship (which wasn't what he wanted, I found he had been hurt bad before)...but said we were not over. He hasn't talked to me much since then. I liked him a lot and was totally okay with what was going on...how can I begin casually hanging out with him or even be friends. I feel like he liked me but was afraid of a relationship!!!!
Livelovelearn Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 sorry to say but this is still not a good sign, i would say he lost interest and is letting you down easily, my ex of 3 years brought that up to me couple months ago, he said he needed "space" and he felt smothered, we hardly see eachother as he lives 1 hour away from me so i couldnt understand plus i did not suffocate him with calls and texts, but anyway point is he was losing interest and he was interested in another female, cut your losses now and just move on because hes not being honest..
Author s22n33 Posted May 9, 2010 Author Posted May 9, 2010 I guess your right that did run through my mind, I just saw no signs of interest loss at all when with him...and would have been perfectly fine being just friends!! oh well
lvixen Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 I agree with livelovelearn. He's trying to let you down gently. Or maybe he wanted a FWB (friends with benefits) and when he saw that you were totally into him, he let you down."It's not over" is his way of keeping you around just in case it doesn't work with someone else. Cut all contact with him and move on. he doesn't want you.
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