O.J. Mayo Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 This is the situation. Im a guy (24), and a friend of mine is dating this girl which he also works with. Im friends with both of them. I knew his girlfriend had a sister just never knew what she looked like until yesterday. So all four of us went out swimming and went later out for drinks. We had a nice conversation, just getting to know each other. Anyway I would like to go out with her, even though I didnt get a vibe from her showing that she's interested in me. And I dont know how to approach the situation seeing that Im friends with her sister. I feel like If I asked her out and she said no it would put our friendships in a weird position. I'd be too embarrassed to ever hang out with them again. My life is so f'd up I dont know what to do Do you think its a good idea to ask her sister (sister of the girl I wanna date) if shes interested in me? Any advice would be greatly appreciated
Author O.J. Mayo Posted May 23, 2010 Author Posted May 23, 2010 Really, no advice for me? The problem is that Im embarrased to ask the sister of the girl I wanna date if shes interested in me. I dont know how to go about this situation. I havent seen the girl Im intrested since that time I wrote about. She doesnt hang out with us......I dunno what to do. I feel crappier by the day.....
USMCHokie Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 This is the situation. Im a guy (24), and a friend of mine is dating this girl which he also works with. Im friends with both of them. I knew his girlfriend had a sister just never knew what she looked like until yesterday. So all four of us went out swimming and went later out for drinks. We had a nice conversation, just getting to know each other. Anyway I would like to go out with her, even though I didnt get a vibe from her showing that she's interested in me. And I dont know how to approach the situation seeing that Im friends with her sister. I feel like If I asked her out and she said no it would put our friendships in a weird position. I'd be too embarrassed to ever hang out with them again. My life is so f'd up I dont know what to do Do you think its a good idea to ask her sister (sister of the girl I wanna date) if shes interested in me? Any advice would be greatly appreciated Eh, move on. You just spent an afternoon with this girl and your friends. She didn't seem interested. You should have asked for her number on the spot. You also seem to get really attached really soon...I hope your life is messed up for other reasons not involving this girl...because if this girl, who you've known for a few hours, has the ability to screw up your life, then you've probably got bigger issues... People come and go out of your life...some stick around just a little longer than others...don't rack your brain over this one...
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