singlelife Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 There is a chick I have been sleeping with. We have been friends and hittin it for about a year. We both sleep with other people so it's not like we are serious. What's up with her acting like she supposed to know all my business lately. She acting weird. Wanting me to pick her up (which is np) but not wantin to come get me (wtf). She wants to act like we dating when we ain't. She wants o always pop up and she never did that b4. She know's I have girls over and I don't do the opo up thing. She even talks different now. Instead of us talkin like friends she has been actin coy and stuff. Like I am to chase her. I getting ready to tell her to step the hell off. But we have a good friendship too.
Scarlett513 Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 Sounds like she's developed feelings for you. I'm sure you were aware before you started sleeping with her that it's pretty common in a long-standing FWB situation for one person or the other to become emotionally involved at some point. If that's not what you want, tell her so. But be gentle... just tell her you've noticed the change in her behavior and that you're not interested in being more than FWB. DO NOT tell her to "step off." That just sounds harsh and rude. Remember, you were friends first and you care about her on that level. So just be honest and move on. Don't lead her on, it's not fair to you and it makes it impossible to save the friendship.
Els Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 Could probably stop all the trouble if you just stop sleeping with her.
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 Your friendship is toast. She has done that which cannot be undone: crossed the line into having feelings.
Engadget Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 FWB situations almost always result in someone getting attached. You have to decide how to deal with this, but there aren't many ways out where she won't get hurt. You could stop now, which is going to make her wonder why, so you'd have to explain. Or keep it going and end up hurting her tons more down the road.
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