Ihavenoidea Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 So I went on this really awesome first date. It lasted about 12 hours from the time I picked her up to the time I brought her home. We had a really nice kiss at the end of the date. A lof of bumping and flirting, she held my arm because it was cold and snuggled next to me on the metro. on our way home. We texted a little while I was driving home and I said "text me tomorrow" she said "will do." I am not sure if I should text her or just wait for her to say something? Sometimes I felt like she was uninterested because she uses a lot of 'maybes' or 'well see' but I am not sure if she is just playing games or hard to get or she means it. I just dont want to appear clingy or anything. I've been on a lot of first dates and despite them all going really well a lot just arent interested. Even having a good first kiss women will still drop of the planet so, not really sure what to do. I dont know. Should I wait to contact her.
marsle85 Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 Oh boy, this is easy. She's giving you maybes and we'll see's because she wants YOU to be the man. She wants you to chase her and pursue her. Don't wait around for her to text you- who's taking who out? She wants to be a girl. Guys have no idea what taking initiative really does for a girl. After I kiss a guy I would be disappointed/little mad if a guy didn't text me or call me the following day. It's disrespectful.
Author Ihavenoidea Posted May 9, 2010 Author Posted May 9, 2010 I finally did send her a text and we sent a few back and fourth made a couple jokes. I asked her if she wanted to do something on saturday and she said it will depend on her work week and that she might have to work on saturday wich means she wont want to really do anything sunday either an she didnt suggest it so..... she is a bit of an "A" type which is fine but should I wait until she tries to schedule something or just wait and plan something for the following week?
brainygirl Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 I'm a type A, I like to know the plan or it isn't a plan. Try to schedual something low key like watching a movie or cooking her a meal after work.
Author Ihavenoidea Posted May 10, 2010 Author Posted May 10, 2010 Well i called her and she didnt answer but she sent me a text saying she was at dinner with her parents. Makes sense since its mothersday and she asked if she could talk to me later. I said ok. 2 hours later she hasnt tried to talk to me. Welp im guessing NEXT. I am starting to conclude that if I have to post here, it might as well mean, NEXT.
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