Leafylivia Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 My ex and i had broken up for almost 5 months and he and that girl has already been in a relationship for 4.5 months and it seems like they are very happy together. At first i did think that it's a rebound but it seems like it don't. I tried the no contact method, identify the problems, work on myself, then started reconnecting with him via letter, but he didn't reply. I do want him back, but i just don't know how to get him back. Is it really over for us? our relationship lasted only 6 months due to some trust issues when we are having LDR. How can i win a guy's heart back?
piscis Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 I am so sorry you are dealing with this. I do not want to be rude Ok I think that you can ask for almost everything to a man to a person but you can not ask anyone to love you. If he started a relationship with someone else that soon what do that tell you about him and his feelings? Please please take care of yourself, be good to you, go out with friends even if you are not in the mood try to use all the energy you are spending in bringing him back in getting better. Hope you cope well and keep posting!!!
secretlady76 Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 I think you can safely say he has moved on and you need to too. I am afraid it is over and the sooner you accept that the better. The best way to do this is No Contact, which should be easy seeing that he doesn't have an intention to contact you and he is ignoring any contact you make. You need to move on. I am sorry to sound harsh but it is in your interest. You don't want to turn into an ex-girlfriend stalker. He does not appreciate the contact you have made and the new girlfriend will like it even less!!! I know it is painful but it will get better.
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