Nat4 Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 I have been sleeping with this guy for a few months now and Im not sure what it is he wants. We met at a club which is something I have never done before. Since we met we have met at the club with friends he has come over..he has invited me on daytrips ect.... He has said he doesnt want anything serious but he really likes me and we also had a conversation about "us" but I said I wanted to get to know eachother more. He calls at least a few times a week just to see how I am and seems like a sweet guy but we have never gone on a real date together, there are times when I text him and get super short responses and he seems more annoyed more than anything. I am generally pretty out spoken and would just flat out ask what he wants out of this but considering I was the one who told him I wasnt sure Im going to look stupid asking that right now. Any thoughts???
Green Posted May 9, 2010 Posted May 9, 2010 I don't think you need to so much ask him anything. Just tell him how you feel, his response should clear things up. If you tell him you are confused about your relationship with him, and that you want more, that you havn't ever been on a real date and he says "so what" or he just tries to change the subject... then you have your answer. If he says something along the lines of "Well we should go out on a real date how about we see Iron Man 2 tonight and I really do like you.... blah blah blah.... I wouldn't press him for labels as some people are weird about that but basicaly if he is bringing you into his life by introducing you to his friends and family... doing date like activities such as eating and entertaining and he is making it clear that he is only spending time with you and no other girls ... then that will be good. You won't look stupid if you just speak your mind and do it in a respectful way. You don't have to continue to see this guy if you aren't both looking for the same thing.
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