counterman Posted May 8, 2010 Posted May 8, 2010 I saw photoes of my ex and her bf on my friend's facebook. I must say I thought I had no feelings attached to the whole situation but I do. It made me really frustrated and angry. I thought about the lies I was told by my ex and I remember all the crap that her bf (who was a loose friend) did to me. Memories came flooding back and those are two people I'll do without. My friends find the prospect of me fighting him funny and they enjoy seeing my more aggressive side but they would never truly understand what had happened. Of course I have moved on but part of me wants to beat the living piss out of that guy. He has crossed the line too many times. Is my anger justified? Should I still be feeling this way?
DenverBachelor Posted May 8, 2010 Posted May 8, 2010 I saw photoes of my ex and her bf on my friend's facebook. I must say I thought I had no feelings attached to the whole situation but I do. It made me really frustrated and angry. I thought about the lies I was told by my ex and I remember all the crap that her bf (who was a loose friend) did to me. Memories came flooding back and those are two people I'll do without. My friends find the prospect of me fighting him funny and they enjoy seeing my more aggressive side but they would never truly understand what had happened. Of course I have moved on but part of me wants to beat the living piss out of that guy. He has crossed the line too many times. Is my anger justified? Should I still be feeling this way? Months down the road you will be thanking him for taking her off your hands. She is his problem, now.
learned2 love 2late Posted May 8, 2010 Posted May 8, 2010 how long was you with her? i done the exact same today.......that loving caring sweet innocent girl is now a dirty slut who dnt give a *** about u anymore. all them times you stood by her, held her, come to pick her up and give her wat she wants is all gone unappreciated. my ex slut left for another guy who she works with, its been 5 months, i am feeling so so so so so much better but after seeing the pic of her slutted up on facebook with her pussy of a boyfriend i felt what you felt for around an hour ive learned not to look at her profile or anything coz ur only goin to hurt urself and yes i wld of loved to seen her new bf and beaten him senceless see how much of a man he is compared to me..... but u kno ul probly look bigger if you laugh in his face and say it wil be ur turn next sucker
Author counterman Posted May 9, 2010 Author Posted May 9, 2010 Months down the road you will be thanking him for taking her off your hands. She is his problem, now. I sure hope so. She definitely wasn't the person I first met. Funny how that is. how long was you with her? i done the exact same today.......that loving caring sweet innocent girl is now a dirty slut who dnt give a *** about u anymore. all them times you stood by her, held her, come to pick her up and give her wat she wants is all gone unappreciated. my ex slut left for another guy who she works with, its been 5 months, i am feeling so so so so so much better but after seeing the pic of her slutted up on facebook with her pussy of a boyfriend i felt what you felt for around an hour ive learned not to look at her profile or anything coz ur only goin to hurt urself and yes i wld of loved to seen her new bf and beaten him senceless see how much of a man he is compared to me..... but u kno ul probly look bigger if you laugh in his face and say it wil be ur turn next sucker I was with her for almost a year. I know I am over her but those photoes made me realise what I must have looked like with her in photoes; all smiles and laughter, but really it was lies beneath. You are so right about that. The way things went about. How cowardly her and her bf were. I don't think it is worth beating him senseless, as much as I want to. But yes, I don't deliberately look at her profile and I don't think I ever will. There's a first for everything and I had to see them sooner or later, just like I might see them together in person sooner than I think as well. If a situation pans out like that, who's going to be the bigger man? I think everyone knows the answer. I am sure glad you are feeling much better and you will continue to become the best that you can be.
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