Author gorgeous1 Posted May 13, 2010 Author Posted May 13, 2010 Youre right, he does have no respect for me at times. Im dealing with two issues....his sexuality and addictions and the way in which he treats me. I know hes no longer doing |"stuff" online due to the fact his pc is right next to mine and Im looking over his shoulder alot....but thats no way to live your life. And the sexuality stuff, well I will never know as he acts so defensive about it all. Im sitting on the fence about everything, dont think there can be a future in any of it. I really appreciate everybodies input and wanted to say thank you. Sometimes its easier from an outsiders point of view to suss the situation out and thats why I posted, when youre in this situation you cant see the plainly obvious.
TPPpeter Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Bisexual for sure because a straight man would never pose nude for other men.
Mary3 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 It sounds like he used you to move in because he had no where to go meanwhile wanking his wonkie at all the guys . Please trust ALL of us here when we say he ain't straight ! And to call you a beeeatch....well that says it all.... Ask him if he was sexually abused as a child. He had some of the marks of abuse by ( being a huge sex addict ) and he could have another personality that deals with his gayness ( hence he forgets he joined web sites , sex sites , swinger sites , --far fetched but give it a whirl. ) It still does not excuse his horrible treatment of you but at least it sheds some light why he craves the c***. Not to say all gay or bi men were sexually abused but its worth finding out if you need closure.
CuriousQDe Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 Yeah, get him out immediately. I would also be willing to bet his marriage ended because of his gay issues and he'd spun the story to get your acceptance. The no-answers,"i don't know"s, the defensiveness are answers. Your head is just protecting your heart from accepting the truth right now.
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