It hurts me but I cant trust women anymore

[SteveC80]

Ive been hit on so many times by married women or women in relationships that i now can no longer trust women anymore from the things ive seen

 

Im a underwear model ive been told im pretty good looking im not saying this to brag believe me im far from full of myself but im using it as an example how allot of women will fawn over good looking guys and look to have sex with us wheter theyre in a relationship or not,not exaggerating theres probably been close to a thousand married women whove attempted to sleep with me rip my clothes off etc and its ruined women for me

 

How can i possibly trust anymore?

 

Not saying all women are dirty like this obviously but believe me its a pretty big number and its killed my drive to have a relationship and trust women

 

I dont know why women today are like this but they seem to have no cosncios uand will cheat on their s/o in a second if they are extremely turned on by a guy

 

These arent my mothers and grnadmothers generation of mostly classy ladies,allot of women are out of control

 

As i said i know its not all but from my experiences its a big number that has scarred me

[USMCHokie]

...Im a underwear model...

 

 

So how might one get into underwear modeling...?

[SteveC80]

So how might one get into underwear modeling...?

 

Did some modeling for Calvin Klein now i do mostly underwear ads for them

[Left in a Lurch]

So how might one get into underwear modeling...?

 

Well I think the key thing would be to try to limit the racing stripes.

[Arasae]

I don't know, I'd say you're describing people in general. There's always been a slew of infidelity and people sleeping with others--my dad and I, now that I'm an adult, are very open with each other and he's told me that several of my mother's friends, at various points in their marriage, had tried very hard to sleep with him.

 

I think people are more open about their "adventures" into adultery than in the past; it's less taboo now, and with the advent of reality TV, people seem more prone to turn their lives into soap operas.

 

But, as a woman who has been cheated on repeatedly, it's hard for me to trust the male gender, but honestly.. will that make me any happier? Not at all. I'm a firm believer that what's in your head will translate into what's in your life; if you go into a relationship expecting the worst, expecting to be cheated on, and expecting to be treated like dirt, then all of the above will happen simply because you'll be acting guardedly, untrustfully, and differently than you would if you believed otherwise.

 

So, as a woman with integrity, I guess I just want to let you know that honest, loyal women do, in fact, exist, we're just the exception rather than the rule.. and really, wouldn't you rather date and marry the exception anyway? =D

[AD1980]

I always find it funny how women are still protrayed as these innocent naive creatures in realationships..Theyre pretty cutthroat...

[BlindbyLove]

should only go to show ya that women, like men, also have the same burning desires. It's just they better been able to control their emotions in time past than men were. IMO

[Ruby Slippers]

should only go to show ya that women, like men, also have the same burning desires. It's just they better been able to control their emotions in time past than men were. IMO

I think it's because women are no longer the property of men, and we have the freedom that comes with being able to support ourselves financially.

 

Women haven't changed -- it's just that now we have the freedom to reveal all our strengths and flaws, just like men.

 

A very attractive man like yourself is going to get attention from all the women looking to cheat, like a good-looking woman will be approached by attached men all the time.

 

I know some women who have cheated, and some women (like me) who never have. Same for men. The key is to find a loyal woman with strong values.

[Feelin Frisky]

I'd advise about making blanket judgments of an entire gender--that's what sexists and homos do. You have to stop being so susceptible to killer emotions and grow some balls. You might want to to try Prozac, it was like putting a pair of eyeglasses on my mind and emotions. I expect deceit and don't fault myself or linger in depression over disappointment. Sorry for the grow some balls comment but you can now do that chemically with psychiatry (medication) (not talk psychotherapy). A modern med like Prozac can help you land on your feet and remind you not to generalize about an entire gender. Just look at a disappointing experience as part of the maturing process. Watch "The Ugly Truth"--a comedy with Gerard Butler and Catherine Heigel. It's not science but a lot of stuff he says is true.

[Woggle]

I try hard to fight my negative feelings but I have hard time trusting women as well. These are the same women who talk badly about men and claim that porn is the sole reason for the battle of the sexes today. Spare me. I know many women will probably say men deserve this because it is payback time but my advice is just have fun with them. Be a player.

[dreamingoftigers]

Maybe you need to find a woman who has been cheated on, I have been cheated on and would never do that to anyone else.

 

I know that trustworthy people are hard to find.

 

I think it is so tragic when someone wants a real connection with another human being and they either get burned, used or have a hard time finding someone connection-worthy.

[dreamingoftigers]

Trustworthiness is low on lists of desired trairts.

I've cheated with a hotter woman several times. If trsutworthiness was important women would avoid avoid avoid me.

Women fall over me and I barely have to try.

 

Trustworthiness is low on the list of slutty women. duh.

 

Women everywhere are different. Just like men.

 

Aside from this thread, I will avoid avoid avoid you

[skydiveaddict]

So how might one get into underwear modeling...?

 

 

yes, I was wondering that myself!! perhaps apply at the local target store?

Edited May 8, 2010 by skydiveaddict