jc3113 Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 Broke up stupidly in september, didnt really know what I was doing, it was a first relationship for us. I messed up my logic, and came back after many months of no contact. She was with someone else for 4 or 5 months, and spent almost 2 months deciding whether she wanted to be with me or him. Their relationship was a rebound from me, but it eventually seemed to have become more than that. Eventually, she "somewhat" chose to go back to me. She broke up with him, but we never went official. Since then, she's basically kept both guys there. Everyone's single, she talks to him alot, she talks to me alot. Technically, she said she was going to try again with me, but its hard for me to feel good about it when she talks to him as much as she does. She's not good with choices, and i guess she's basically keeping both options open. I hurt her alot with the breakup, and its understandable that the trust isn't fully there. She's also said how it doesnt feel the same being with me as it felt then, which is also understandable considering everything that happened. She doesn't know if she wants me, or what she wants in general, so she keeps both options there. I've been pretty damn miserable, this has been going on for months, and no one wants to let go. Thoughts?
Sivok Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 Sounds like she's walking all over you. You have to be firm and assertive with her. That 'keeping you open' and choice stuff is BS. If I was you, I really would not bother taking her back. It will not be the same. I said this in another thread but your breakup was a hammer to a mirror. Even if you put it back together you'll still see the cracks. It's really not worth it
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