freckles3131 Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 Dumper texts me on Monday "Will come to pick up my car and the rest of my stuff on Tuesday, going to take the day off. Is this okay?" My reply, "Yes, just be sure to leave your house key on table when done" Tuesday night......while I'm sleeping, he picks up the car and nothing else. Wednesday, text message "Do you have pool league tonight?" my reply "yes" (I was assuming he was asking because I wouldn't be home and thus he could come get the rest of his stuff...) I came home Wednesday night after pool league.....his stuff is still there (not that it's stuff he totally needs, just this and that and his tv) Part of me wants to text him, "Um.....when are you getting your stuff out of here?" (I mean seriously, why is he balking?) The other part of me is thinking he is looking for me to contact him and is probably slightly suprised that I haven't contacted him or beg and plead etc.....and his ego needs me to be the one to get ahold of him. Okay, so I assume.........stay in no contact is the way and tell myself "whatever" as far as his stuff still being at the house....or.....let him know this stuff needs to go?? I mean....he dumped me, fell out of love etc....why the frick wouldn't he be wanting all his stuff gone?
Author freckles3131 Posted May 7, 2010 Author Posted May 7, 2010 So....I guess my question is: Do I keep in no contact mode? Or Call him and give him a dealine to get it out?
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