phineas Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 divorce - it's gonna happen. My friend jokes the agreed upon child support is a good bargain for getting out of the marriage. LOL! Last night I went with STBXW to pre-k registration for our son. A good 4 hrs of standing in line. Talk was mostly of her wanting to discuss the two women texting me while we were in line. LOL! She seemed jealous, pulled the "I want to know who is around my kids" crap. Whatever. Said it makes her feel bad that now she is gone i'm working out, going to bed early, blah,blah,blah (basically bettering myself) Still focused on what I DID to ruin the marriage. LOL! Her one beef that according to her ruinded it all was: Basically, while she was pregnant with our first she was tired & went to bed at 8 pm every night. She felt neglected because I wasn't tired & didn't want to go to bed at 8 pm. I couldn't watch TV in bed with her because the TV kept her awake & she didn't want to have sex. Basically she thought I should go to bed when she did & because I didn't she felt neglected even though she was asleep 5 minutes after her head touched the pillow. I'm such a bastard of a husband. and of course she totally pretends she didn't even have an affair & never came home at 3 am multiple nights a week after our son was born because she was with OM. She has completly blocked out the 3 yrs of being emotionally hot & cold with me, (because of affair) her bitching, & nagging & lieing ect & just convinced herself that "we just didn't work out". I really didn't care & just agreed with her. LOL! I think she is starting to realize what she gave up. I think Woggle said it best about cheaters. If my wife had taken even half the time & energy she expended on her affair & applyed it to our marriage we wouldn't be divorcing now. I truely am better off without her & I now have a better idea on what type of women to avoid in the future.
FeelingLonely98 Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 phin - your STBXW sounds a lot like my revisionist XW. (pretending things didn't happen, only focusing on what SHE wanted to, ...ETC.) Good Luck phin. Keep working out, having fun, bettering yourself - - - let her know that phin will be A-OK without her!! PEACE!
2.50 a gallon Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 What FL98 said Funny how often the wayward wife gets jealous when she finds out another woman might be interested. You are her property! Trust me on this one, far better days are just on the horizon Your friend Gallon
Author phineas Posted May 7, 2010 Author Posted May 7, 2010 she's so stupid. By her actions & what she's said to me lately I figured out she is living with OM & didn't tell me. She finally had to admit it. Doesn't surprise me. She gives me crap about who I am bringing around the kids & she's living with the man she cheated on me with. And, she tried to booty call me not to long ago. Oh, OM is a lucky guy to have snatched such a prize from me. LOL!
mikeymad Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 Phineas, you're not paying child support, you're paying RANSOM for your life and freedom back. That is the only time you negotiate with (mental) terrorists.
Author phineas Posted May 8, 2010 Author Posted May 8, 2010 Phineas, you're not paying child support, you're paying RANSOM for your life and freedom back. That is the only time you negotiate with (mental) terrorists. Yep. I just got me a zero interest 16yr freedom loan. LOL! It's funny, I can almost tell when she is lieing to me %100 of the time now by the inflection in her voice & her choice of words.
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