Sith Apprentice Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Fat chicks remind me of mopeds. You wanna ride one, but you sure as hell don't want any of your friends to see you doing it. Perhaps you should consider tailoring your online dating profile to weed out the fatties. here's mine as an example: Here is a well thought out idea of what kind of gal I am interested in...5' 5" or taller, but not over 6 feet (because while I don't mind being eye to eye with you, I won't ever be looking up to you), lives close enough to be at my house within 10 minutes after I make the call, genuinely passionate, intelligent enough to be good company, sexually available (preferably insatiable) and VERY attractive - we're talking Jessica Alba, Keyra Augustina attractive - women with a bodyfat percentage higher than 8% need not apply. Must be employed but not so as you'll interfere with our sexual activities, FAMILY oriented, but only after you've hit 30-33, open to spontaneous sex (you know, like outdoor stuff or a surprise 3 way with one of your hot girlfriends after our 2nd martini), likes to camp (in the nude), knows not to complain when I go play golf with the guys from work. She must want children after 33 years of age if at all, and only after she's proven to be a good mother and faithful wife, must be a lady with class and know when the right time is to speak and not to speak, not a prude or b!tch, can take the first hint, sociable, unexpectedly calls to tell me she's wearing something new from Fredericks of Hollywood, understands that the best gift she can give me is expressing her desire to ***k me like a wild animal, and also understands that gifts for her are treats or rewards for desired behavior. Must be respectful of my decisions being final, can't take herself too seriously and thinks the world of me. I'm not interested in anyone over 30 (since this is most women's expiration date anyway), she cannot have exhorbitant spending habits or a credit debtload in excess of $1,000 since I do not plan on changing the lifestyle I have grown accustom to and hope to one day be able to send my own children to college, and furthermore... my children will be taught to reasonably earn their achievements on their own and respect the decisions of their father and mother (and absolutely will not be spoiled brats either). She should also know that not only are most pets abject money pits, but more often than not are adopted by women in order to give themselves something to occupy them rather than connecting with their husbands. I'm very attracted to redheads, blondes, brunettes, Latinos, Asians, African-Americans, Pacific Islanders, etc., pretty much any woman that meets my physical requirements. I am not attracted at all to even slightly fat women no matter how much "inner beauty" you think you may possess, sorry NO FATTIES tee hee!
SilentVoice Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Fat chicks remind me of mopeds. You wanna ride one, but you sure as hell don't want any of your friends to see you doing it. Perhaps you should consider tailoring your online dating profile to weed out the fatties. here's mine as an example: Here is a well thought out idea of what kind of gal I am interested in...5' 5" or taller, but not over 6 feet (because while I don't mind being eye to eye with you, I won't ever be looking up to you), lives close enough to be at my house within 10 minutes after I make the call, genuinely passionate, intelligent enough to be good company, sexually available (preferably insatiable) and VERY attractive - we're talking Jessica Alba, Keyra Augustina attractive - women with a bodyfat percentage higher than 8% need not apply. Must be employed but not so as you'll interfere with our sexual activities, FAMILY oriented, but only after you've hit 30-33, open to spontaneous sex (you know, like outdoor stuff or a surprise 3 way with one of your hot girlfriends after our 2nd martini), likes to camp (in the nude), knows not to complain when I go play golf with the guys from work. She must want children after 33 years of age if at all, and only after she's proven to be a good mother and faithful wife, must be a lady with class and know when the right time is to speak and not to speak, not a prude or b!tch, can take the first hint, sociable, unexpectedly calls to tell me she's wearing something new from Fredericks of Hollywood, understands that the best gift she can give me is expressing her desire to ***k me like a wild animal, and also understands that gifts for her are treats or rewards for desired behavior. Must be respectful of my decisions being final, can't take herself too seriously and thinks the world of me. I'm not interested in anyone over 30 (since this is most women's expiration date anyway), she cannot have exhorbitant spending habits or a credit debtload in excess of $1,000 since I do not plan on changing the lifestyle I have grown accustom to and hope to one day be able to send my own children to college, and furthermore... my children will be taught to reasonably earn their achievements on their own and respect the decisions of their father and mother (and absolutely will not be spoiled brats either). She should also know that not only are most pets abject money pits, but more often than not are adopted by women in order to give themselves something to occupy them rather than connecting with their husbands. I'm very attracted to redheads, blondes, brunettes, Latinos, Asians, African-Americans, Pacific Islanders, etc., pretty much any woman that meets my physical requirements. I am not attracted at all to even slightly fat women no matter how much "inner beauty" you think you may possess, sorry NO FATTIES tee hee! Wow you sound like a catch!
Romance Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 Fat chicks remind me of mopeds. You wanna ride one, but you sure as hell don't want any of your friends to see you doing it. Perhaps you should consider tailoring your online dating profile to weed out the fatties. here's mine as an example: Here is a well thought out idea of what kind of gal I am interested in...5' 5" or taller, but not over 6 feet (because while I don't mind being eye to eye with you, I won't ever be looking up to you), lives close enough to be at my house within 10 minutes after I make the call, genuinely passionate, intelligent enough to be good company, sexually available (preferably insatiable) and VERY attractive - we're talking Jessica Alba, Keyra Augustina attractive - women with a bodyfat percentage higher than 8% need not apply. Must be employed but not so as you'll interfere with our sexual activities, FAMILY oriented, but only after you've hit 30-33, open to spontaneous sex (you know, like outdoor stuff or a surprise 3 way with one of your hot girlfriends after our 2nd martini), likes to camp (in the nude), knows not to complain when I go play golf with the guys from work. She must want children after 33 years of age if at all, and only after she's proven to be a good mother and faithful wife, must be a lady with class and know when the right time is to speak and not to speak, not a prude or b!tch, can take the first hint, sociable, unexpectedly calls to tell me she's wearing something new from Fredericks of Hollywood, understands that the best gift she can give me is expressing her desire to ***k me like a wild animal, and also understands that gifts for her are treats or rewards for desired behavior. Must be respectful of my decisions being final, can't take herself too seriously and thinks the world of me. I'm not interested in anyone over 30 (since this is most women's expiration date anyway), she cannot have exhorbitant spending habits or a credit debtload in excess of $1,000 since I do not plan on changing the lifestyle I have grown accustom to and hope to one day be able to send my own children to college, and furthermore... my children will be taught to reasonably earn their achievements on their own and respect the decisions of their father and mother (and absolutely will not be spoiled brats either). She should also know that not only are most pets abject money pits, but more often than not are adopted by women in order to give themselves something to occupy them rather than connecting with their husbands. I'm very attracted to redheads, blondes, brunettes, Latinos, Asians, African-Americans, Pacific Islanders, etc., pretty much any woman that meets my physical requirements. I am not attracted at all to even slightly fat women no matter how much "inner beauty" you think you may possess, sorry NO FATTIES tee hee! you're a loser. that is even off putting to thin women like myself. I'd never want a man like you.
mikarla Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 You do sound kind of bitchy. And you do sound kind of lazy. Those of us who use the metric system often have to go through the arduous lengths of typing such things as "150 pounds in kgs" into google, I'm SURE you have the ability to do it, but just in case googling is too 1337 for you, I saved you the trouble; 120 kgs (OPs weight)= 264 pounds 174cm (OP height)= 5'8 1/2 87 kgs (OPs fat gf)= 191 pounds 171cm (OPs fat gfs height)= 5'7
AngryTroll Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 You do sound kind of bitchy. Ok, well tough luck honey. Why would you post in a thread asking someone to convert, only to keep checking back to see if someone answered when you could easily Google? I swear, the USA fails people sometimes- no rather, Americans are too lazy to learn something outside the 'box' And you do sound kind of lazy. Those of us who use the metric system often have to go through the arduous lengths of typing such things as "150 pounds in kgs" into google, I'm SURE you have the ability to do it, but just in case googling is too 1337 for you, I saved you the trouble; 120 kgs (OPs weight)= 264 pounds 174cm (OP height)= 5'8 1/2 87 kgs (OPs fat gf)= 191 pounds 171cm (OPs fat gfs height)= 5'7 Thank you! It's pure laziness!
Pink Cupcakes Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 No need for rudeness and namecalling. I asked very politely.
Snakebite Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Hi Trum, sorry to be blunt but I think you should have called this thread 'How do I overcome MY excess weight problem?' - because it appears that the issue is simply that her being overweight bothers you. I don't really think it's to do with you wanting to change. Whether it's you or your friends/family having negative thoughts about her weight makes absolutely no difference because it all boils down to the fact that the extra kilos are making her less attractive as a potential partner. You feel like "I did something, don't I deserve someone who does something too?" Maybe worried that they might think the "fat girl" is the best you can get? Yep, these two observations make perfect sense. If he didn't feel up to the challenge, he wouldn't be pursuing the prize in the first place, he wouldn't have the self-confidence to set the baseline and say 'this is what I deserve and no less'. Trum, I don't think you deserve to be criticised for being shallow because of your preferences when it comes to looks. If having a slightly thinner gf matters to you then that's fine, nobody has the right to tell you otherwise and that it should matter any more or less than it does. Personally, looks play a huge role when it comes to what I look for in a partner and I'm certainly not shallow. Also, other people's opinions do matter and influence many of us and it's no use pretending that having a 'fat' partner will fly with everyone. Yes, you are leaving yourself and your gf open to criticism and whatnot by mates/family/colleagues and this can have a devastating effect on your self-confidence and relationship with your gf. I personally think that you're trying to attack the problem from the wrong end. Trying work top-down and adopting a 'f**k what they think - it doesnt bother me' attitude probably won't work for very long because in your heart, that's not really what you believe. Try a different way. Work bottom-up; take time to get to know her (for godsakes you barely know each other!), let the relationship develop, then have some time apart and ask yourself 'do I miss her and what is it about it I miss? Do I wish she was here because I love her charm, wit and companionship?'. Maybe in the end these things will win out over the negative feelings about her weight, and you'll be proud that people know she's YOURS. Good luck. X
WalkInThePark Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Maybe he's good looking for a 40 year old. I know my father was quite handsome in his 40's. He is 1,74m and his weight is 120 kg = he is not looking good, he is looking fat. A friend of mine's husband was 1,77m and 120 kg (his weight was an eternal source of conflict as it cause him health problems). Yes, he had quite a nice face but a basket belly and a double chin. And when he was walking he was short of breath. Very attractive if you ask me...
Author trum39 Posted May 20, 2010 Author Posted May 20, 2010 @WalkInThePark---Im actually now down to 116 kgs Thats 255 pounds and most of it is carried around my waist. I have broad muscular arms shoulders and legs, and I am very fit for my size. I do boot camp and PT 3 times a week up until I had the lap band surgery. So I do consider myself to be a good looking 41 year old and I get told that often on dating sites etc. @SnakeBite--Thanks for your advice thats exactly what i have started to do. Im still seeing ehr but I have told her I want things to go slow. I chat top her on the phone and we text every day but I only see her on weekends. She has watched my daughters play netball and we have all gone out for dinner and she has even taken them shopping. They all get along very well and have added each other on facebook. I told her that i just want to take things slowly...if I fall for her then im sure the weight thing wont matter anymore and I wont care what other people say or think. My dad was here on holidays and he met her and said she was a lovely person and I was lucky to have met her. So thanks once again and I will let you know how things go.
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